When you answer this, think about how you feel about it in general terms without considering how you would feel if your guy was watching strippers. Does your opinion change if they're getting a lap dance rather than just watching?
And just for flavor, how would you feel about your guy watching strippers? Would you be offended or hurt, or would you see it as something done for fun. For that matter, are you the type that would actually want to go with your guy?
2007-09-01 23:54:36 · 19 answers · asked by Justin H 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Lets see, I am a topless dancer and I wouldn't mind my husband getting a dance or even going to these clubs as long as he's honest about it.
It's like the porn question, yes some chicks mind some don't and some want to join in.
Everyone needs their own personal space and can make their own decisions so if you have a guy who gets turned on by something like thins don't be offended and make him hide it from you because it just might be the thing that makes you not trust him or him trust you that he's only looking and not touching. And another thing most guys that come into my club to get dances are married and flying solo for the evening but I do get alot of couples looking for a new experience.
And I don't see my profession as a degrading thing I have never seen anyone else bring home $1000.00 in one night, I have been to college and have a bachelors degree, But I will always be able to go back to that when I get older because right now horny lonely guys pay more!!
2007-09-02 16:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron_Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a problem with it, I see nothing wrong with admiring women's bodies. It's natural. Lap dances are just another more intimate way of doing the admiring. I wouldn't mind if my man watched strippers - as long as I get to do it too (male strippers that is). I'd go with him, but only if he asked. I wouldn't forcably tag along. I'd also not want for it to become a habit that can lead to the emptying of our bank accounts. I would be hurt if a man I'm with began thinking that it's normal for women to look or behave the way strippers do.
I'm lucky though, my man actually finds natural beauty more appealing than the typical over processed hair, giant inflated breasts, and KISS like make up stripper look.
2007-09-02 00:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by smeelola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one knows Strippers have no self respect; but you have to put your self in other people's shoes. Most of these women who stripe for money are either very desperate and have no other choice or they were traumatized when they were a child. Childhood trauma interferes with the child's brain development. There are thousands of reasons why men go to a stripe club but the majority breaks down to 3 major types. group 1.) Guys who just turn 18. group 2.) Men on their Bachelor party. group 3.) Guys who have plenty of money but have a hard time getting a date ( these types of guys are almost always hanging out at a stripe club). The reason we don't understand men is because we are not men. I feel bad for guys who try so hard to get just one girl and end up being alone; while good looking guys don't need to try too hard. Guys who are attractive don't need to be at a stripe club or seating on a couch watching porn, they could choose any girl they want. It's the same scenario with attractive women. Some people have nothing and some have it all
2016-05-19 02:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sad when any man (or woman) in a committed relationship goes to a strip club. Why not just come right out and tell your partner you aren't completely satisfied by them? It's the same thing. Forget about this garbage of "its ok to admire beautiful people" or "it's ok because I do it too". Why in the world are you married then? Be happy with your own partner and stay away from disgusting places like that.
2007-09-02 02:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be rather pissed if my bf went to strip clubs, I can understand single men going but men who are in committed relationships should stick to their gf's and porn lol. Also I would be extra pissed if he got a lap dance, watching would make me pretty mad but getting a lap dance would send it over the edge. Yes I would be a bit offended if my man went to a strip club.
2007-09-02 02:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a jealous wife so if he was at a bachelor party watching strippers I'd be ok with that but if it was just for fun,HE CAN GO AND GET F$%KED.I'd kill him!!!! lol
2007-09-02 00:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be hurt or offended because I can do the same thing a stripper can do in the privacy of our own home. So, therefore, there really shouldn't be a reason why my husband would have to go to a strip club when he could have it at home..for FREE..
2007-09-01 23:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I have no problem with it. If that's how they want to get their kicks who the hell am I to judge, and so long as there are women who are prepared to do it for them (without being exploited .i.e forced to) then where is the problem. They aren't hurting anyone.
Now if it were my man, I would have a slightly different view because I'd be thinking why in the world would you want to pay someone to do that for you when you have me.
I never worry if he looks at porn on TV or nude models in the newspaper, so it's the paying for it side of things I object to.
I wouldn't mind going into a topless bar with my husband so long as I didn't have to pay to get in and I just happened to be there with him. I wouldn't be embarrassed or anything but I wouldn't necessarily go out of my way to go with him either. Half naked women do very little for me I'm afraid. Now half naked men. That's a different story :-)
2007-09-02 04:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Louise H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my guy, if i had one, wouldnt need to go to the strippers. i can do that for him. and if he did end up going then i have no respect for him at all and end up leaving him cos nothing good comes out of that behaviour ☺
2007-09-01 23:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty unsavory & rather sad if its a habitual thing. It's ok as part of a group at a bachelor party.
2007-09-01 23:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by birdie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋