we had a real messy divorce. i was with him dec 18 and dec 26 . i was with new boyfriend dec 31 . i had unprotected sex with ex on dec 18 was it possible for me to get pregnate then?
2007-09-01 17:02:06 · 20 answers · asked by mary1071368 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Those dates are VERY close together your son could very well be either man's child. The date of conception given by the doctors are estimates based on the last date of your menstrual. With less than ten days, there is no way of telling who the baby's father is. Did both men ejaculate inside of you? If one ejaculated inside of you and the other didn't then perhaps, that could be of some help to you.
Good Luck, I hope you find out who your baby's daddy is!!!
2007-09-01 17:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by little lamb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow they are very close and how do you find a boyfriend that quick , unless you were seeing him during the marriage (sorry not to be nasty ) Anyway you have yourself in a predicament, i gather your ex will have some questions as the bf probably don;t know you were with your ex. I think all you can do is be honest up front with them and get a DNA when the child is born, its only fair that your baby knows who the real daddy is. and what ever you do not tell ya boyfriend the baby is his when you know there is a massive chance it couldn't be .
Good Luck with everything
2007-09-01 17:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by gemma b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on your menstrual cycle and if its regular or not.....if you don't know your cycle your best bet would be to go by your ultrasound,i went to a pregnancy center to get an ultra.,but jus make sure you let them both know of the possibility..i was in a similar situation and my cycle is irregular,so had to have an ultra. and based on how far along i was i went back and did the dates and remembered the dates when i started getting symptoms and was able to rule out the other possibility definitely....jus take some time and make dates of sex w/both partners and dates of symptoms(really think about it).hope this helps
2007-09-09 15:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by fe_macc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is definately possible, but you should't be scared because if it is your ex's baby that doesn't mean that you have to be with your ex as long as he is paying child support. It is very important to use protection every time you have sex, so my advice to you is use condoms and/or the pill and get a DNA test.
2007-09-09 13:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entirely possible especially since you didn't use protection, hopefully you used your brain and used protection with your new boyfriend but since you are asking I am assuming that you didn't . Obviously you are just going to have to get a paternity test, and start being more responsible, use protection, there are a whole lot worse consequuences out there than just wondering who the father is, ever hear of STD's.
2007-09-01 17:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by peteybug76 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not if you had a normal period on 23 December. What is the due date?
If it is the September 30th, probably no.
If the baby is due 8 September, then yes, it could. What is the first day you had sex with the boyfriend?
2007-09-01 17:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything is possible, but if it is your ex husbands just remeber life goes on...your boyfriend may have a hard time dealing but he too will get over it with time. All wounds heal with time good luch and remember it is a blessing either way!!
2007-09-09 10:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by luvme&hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you could be preggers with his baby. Only DNA will tell.
Look at the bright side: you can screw your ex out of more money if it is his kid.
2007-09-09 10:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god if you don`t know then what are you doing messing around with anyone.. if you had unprotected sex with anyone on any day yes you can be pregnant..
2007-09-08 10:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends when was your last period. Take the first day of ya last period and add 2wks. That would be the week you conceived.
2007-09-08 16:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by rn_kela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋