my boyfriend is having slight trouble getting an erection. last night he was fine and everything was great. he was also ok when we got up this morning. but this afternoon and now he is having a bit of trouble. he says it is not a complete erection.. he can feel it wanting to get hard, but it isnt.
any advice or infor or help would be great.
thanks so much! =]
2007-09-01 16:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You may want to let him rest a bit. Did you have sex last night? And then this morning? And tried again this afternoon? His penis may just be saying, let's give it a little rest. Wait a day. His mind might want to get an erection, but his penis is telling him no.
2007-09-01 16:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes soldiers get tired after a long road march. Give the puppy a break or you will have to do something to make him pop tall. Use your imagination and I'm sure you can help it along. Most men average 3.5 times a week. Younger men don't always have the stamina for more than twice a day. There are a few "work horses" out there that can answer the "call of duty" continuously but on average----3.5 times a week. Have you guys thought of-----doing other things---like fishing, or watching movies, or hanging out? Patience grasshopper. It will grow back!
By the way----this does not qualify your boyfriend for erectile disfunction (ED). Don't go poking Viagra down his throat either. I'm not a doctor nor did I stay at a Holiday Inn but I'm certain that I'm right.
2007-09-03 01:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wild Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is getting enough sleep each night - you are very athletic sexually, so he needs at the minimum, 8 hours every day. Keep him healthy - he needs to eat a good variety of foods without too much fat or carbs, but plenty of vitamins and minerals. Make sure he drinks enough fluids - juice, milk, water but NOT pop or coffee - the caffeine makes it difficult to sleep, so he'll be wide awake but too exhausted to do much, and can make him easily distracted from the task at hand.
Guys need a certain amount of time to regenerate the reservoir.
Don't let others tell you how much sex to have, but it will help if you focus more on the intimacy and cuddling foreplay and being sexually arousing than expecting him to be ready to go right away. Erections don't perform well under pressure. Most of all, don't make a big deal of it! that will just give him anxiety about it, which will make it even more difficult next time, like a feedback loop.
2007-09-04 06:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-15 02:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is probably drained...give him a break! There are many other ways to get you off, if he knows the art of cunnilingus then go for it, if he doesn't get a book on it and have him learn! You will be so much happier, and he will have a chance to fill up again! Good luck!
2007-09-05 16:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joel H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen to every man, he mustn't be worry about that.
We are not sexmachines and sometimes we have problems, stress or are just tired.
Next time everything will go good and you will have sex and he the erection.
2007-09-01 16:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for most people. Sometimes too much of a good thing is sometimes difficult to maintain over a period of time. No pun intended but keep up the good work.
2016-03-17 22:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-01 00:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Daugherty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?Tz9o
As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.
2017-02-17 08:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by guyk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 23:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋