my "friend" and i have been friends ever since 3rd grade and were in 7th ok well she's always talking to her boyfriend who she don't even now and every time i'm around her it's always joey this joey that(her boyfriend)and every time i try to call her she's always talking to him and i fell like she hates me and has totally forgotton me and is to busy talking about joey wat do i do :-((
2007-09-01 16:20:20 · 14 answers · asked by Skitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
(A) try to break them up
(B)forget her and make new and better friends
(C)calm down and relax
(D)talk to her about it
(E)all the above
2007-09-01 16:23:51 · update #1
Relax, I'm assuming this relationship is just starting out? Many people just beginning a relationship are always talking about their other mate.. simply because they really like them! Don't worry, just give it time. Also, no affence to being in 7th grade or anything, but 7th grade relationships usually end up sinking at around a few weeks. She'll come to a sad realization that you were always there for her and that you are a true friend. Stick it out, things will turn out for you!
2007-09-01 16:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Yeah, bad situation.
Your friend doesn't hate you, promise. She's not a bad friend either. She probably doesn't even realise what she's doing and how she's making you feel. Have you ever been in love? Do you have a boyfriend? If you do, then you know what it feels like. Some people go more crazy over love than others.
My advise would be to talk to her. Gently tell her that you're feeling kind of left out, and explain how much she means to you. Tell her you're glad she has a great boyfriend, but you'd really like to have her back too.
Good luck.
2007-09-08 17:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi: Sounds like your friend doesn't realize that she doesn't have to give up her girlfriends for a guy.
Try to give her some space and spend more time with other friends---she'll probably come to realize that your relationship with her is special and something she doesn't want to lose.
In 7th grade, sometimes hormones rule!
Hope you are feeling better!
2007-09-01 16:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Irene L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't try to break them up b/c all you'll look is jealous. The best thing to do is talk to her and let her know how you feel that you guys friendship is being neglected b/c of her new relationship. You guys are young so of course she is 100 into this guy... just let her know how u feel
2007-09-09 14:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay friends you know its hard to not talk about whom you really like that is all she is doing. she would be just like you if you had boyfirend and that is great. you just enjoy what little you see her and be friends and make some new ones and hang with others but be opened for her maybe some day she will need a friend again.
2007-09-07 16:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D, you should tlak to her abot how you feel that you guys dont get to spend that much time together, and that you missed that.
she should spend time with you AND her boyfriend, but seperately.
if she doesnt respect that, then maybe its time you find someone eles to hang out with for a while, until she starts realizing that a boy should not consume all her time, but where she can still have other friends.
2007-09-01 16:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by marshmellows 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to make you jealous. If she is always talking to her boyfriend and in your presence she is giving more attention to him, that may not mean that she loves him.
2007-09-09 16:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by jillybilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her b/c @ that age all every girl wants to talk about are boys this & boys that so just dont worry about it & relax b/c she will eventually run out of things to talk about him & she will need you but just tell her how u feel
2007-09-08 18:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by princesa mexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her what you feel..let it out...tell her you don't want your friendship to die just because of her boyfriends and let her realize that a true friend is much better that a boyfriend...
2007-09-08 23:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey pal..jus chillax...if ur frnd's not paying much attention to u...i guess u should jus move away frm her n look 4 a bettr friend..m sure she'll realize ur need in ur absence...n when time comes, she, on her own wil approach u...plead u 4 ur friendship...so jus stay coool...
2007-09-01 22:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by harrymaniac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋