Why is the world so negative? Why can't I be setting myself up for a compliment? Why does it always have to be that we're setting ourselves up for an insult?
2007-09-01 16:07:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You shouldn't be setting yourself up for either. The truth is, when you ask a question people will generally give their honest opinion, unless they can get something out of lying. That said, one person's opinion will be completely different from another's. You won't always get compliments, no one does. But you won't always get insults either. Just focus on the positive, because in the end the only person you have to impress is yourself.
2007-09-01 16:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Meg Marie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i think u r percieving things in awrong way here. y do u feel ppl always try to offend u? maybe its not an offence to begin with. y do u need a approval from other ppl about urself? maybe ur mom did not have parents who guided her properly and this is her way of trying to tie the loose ends; sort of like giving u care n attention tht she never had; or maybe she is doing her best to be a good mother. whatever it is, u r too old to blame it on anyone else. i am 23 too and i have am alcohlic father who harrassed us wen v were young. But im over it now and am quite confident, if u feel ur mother is the root cause of ur problem the i really think u shud solve things wid her first. talk to her and calmly explain what u feel maybe if u sort things wid her , u will understand how she feels and what other ppl actually mean. its all in the way u percieve things. The best advice i can give is goto a therapist or family counselling that should help. remember, only if u sort ur probs wid her, u will really know y she did what she did
2016-05-19 00:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because not everyone has your best intentions so you can be setting yourself up for hurt if you ask too personal of a questions but yes on the same token you can be setting yourself up for nice compliments, too - guess that depends on who all answers. Just have to know what your boundaries are when it comes to this.
2007-09-01 16:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ohioguy95 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the real world out here. There will always be anger and violence. No matter how nice some people are there will always be someone out there that will act in a negative way. Anyways I hope you a great day .
2007-09-01 16:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by filiwian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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QQ, Dear!
You've the right attitude.
What if some insult you for a question or the way you've asked or the subject matter of it. Take it in your stride & don't be a shrinking touch-me-not! But never react rudely to an answerer as he / she is your client / customer. Explain your stand in Additional Details.
It is always advisable for all of us to have a Principled-Paradigm (way of Thinking & action). Then we'd never mind for praises or blames, boquets or brickbats. All the same! We know we've a principled stand & outlook.. Nothing would bother us anymore.
Hope this helps you & others here.
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2007-09-01 16:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because there are people out there that just wants to make fun or give a silly answer to your questions.you have to weed out the silly ones and focus in the pure ones.
2007-09-01 16:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats an interesting take on the situation. i would suggest ignoring them and not choosing those people for best answer. Just remember u don't have to stay on answers if its annoying u.
2007-09-01 16:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Oyoko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why people have to be mean either, but here's a star to cheer you some!
2007-09-01 16:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think people are just rude. sometimes you can get a compliment.
2007-09-01 16:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by donielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lots of bad folk here tonight..but some of us are the good guys
2007-09-01 16:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋