A little about my friend... we've been friends for 3 years, but in the last few months, she's become needy, demanding, annoying, rude, and possessive. I'm her only friend because of this reason. We don't go to the same school anymore, and she scared off the one friend she had at that school because the girl didn't want to be with her 24/7. Whenever I tell her about my job, school, or my boyfriend, she says, "Yeah, that's nice" rudely and changes the subject to what she wants to talk about. She is so cynical, so unbearable to be around. When we went to the fireworks, she's like, "I hate this. There's people here." I said to her, "Why'd you come then?" She has a problem with all my friends, my boyfriend, everything. Whenever I'm happy, she squashes the mood. I tried talking to her about it, and she says that she's just not into hanging out with people other than me. I have a life too. Now she leaves me messages demanding me to call her, she bugs me at work and at my boyfriend's house.
2007-09-01 15:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by Nani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By the way, I already told her off. I ignored her calls and then she started blocking her calls or calling from different phones. She even showed up at my job, bugged me to hang out with her the next day. I told her I'm going to be with my family, and she got all pissed off. Then she applied to my job, and if she gets hired, she'll be there too. There's no escaping her. She's like a stalker... stopping by my house, work... I'm afraid to confront her though because when she gets hurt, she gets out of control with rage. She is a very depressed person, but I don't need her to be dragging me down. She is selfish too, and I'm sick of it. Words just don't get through to her!!!
2007-09-01 16:22:03 · update #1
ok i dont think you ould call her a friend more like a Demanding Bey--ch dont feel sorry for her its her fault and people dont change i am sorry for you just let her go she can find her own human Tard Sack ( im not saying your a Tard or anything im just saying :) )
2007-09-01 15:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a floor mat that she'll step on. your so patient and i salute to you. but you are also so nice that i look down to you. you should try to stand up you know and tell her that she's being rude or something. i don't think she is a nice friend (obviously). tell her you have your own life to and your sick of being her rug
2007-09-01 22:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by nocturnal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going to have to dump her. Tell her your lifestyles are too different.
2007-09-01 22:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you whether or not you want to put up with that crap.....
2007-09-01 22:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋