Did it pull on your heart strings, and tear you apart?
How did you cope with it?
2007-09-01 15:14:49 · 21 answers · asked by Kirsty 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I used to let this happen all the time. It would just eat me up inside.
After a while it wasn't really useful if two people were feeling the hurt. At least one person had to be ok enough to deal with the problem.
I still try to empathize with people, but I make sure it never goes too far.
2007-09-01 17:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by T the D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need a partner--boy friend, husband, whoever. I can only give a few ideas as *tips: 1. Don't wait for the perfect guy. You could end up still looking when menopause comes.!;-) 2. Don't be cheap or sell yourself too easily, but if you are needing the physical love instead of 'taking care of yourself' as you phrased it, try doing so with guys who are only potential long-term mates, those you aren't sure about, and let them know you aren't in love with them or desire permanence. 3. If no one is chatting you up or asking you out, try being less feminine/passive, and more active/aggressive. Try not to be so excellent yourself. You might scare potential mates away, who are looking for an average person with no extreme passions or devotions. If someone senses you love spiders and rocks as much as you care for him, he's likely to pass and move on. People are selfish. No one wants competition in that department.
2016-05-19 00:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got through it together...it's a very weird feeling and happens when you're strongly connected...when he'd hurt I hurt just as much as he did and more...like it was happening to me. We just tried our best to be there for each other in our down moments. It carried over into the physical with us too not just emotional...I remember this one time when it was that time of the month he had hot and cold sweats, cramps and got bloated I felt so sorry for him cause I was hardly feeling any pain but he felt the most of it.
When you begin to feel your partners pain on that level you really have something strong going on there. Hold on to it tightly.
2007-09-01 16:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I cope by trying to help them to get over the problem.
2007-09-01 20:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Afi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have felt pain from someone who is very close to me ,going through heartache.i tried my best to be there for them and help in any way possible.now i am going through the very same thing.and i cannot help myself at this moment in time.
2007-09-01 15:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have...but there is no way to cope with it in my opinion. it comes around, finds you, becomes your own then leaves in time. it is our nature. we love the company; even it is pain.....
2007-09-01 22:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by NoxecA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes still trying to fix my heart
2007-09-06 10:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have! I took the person in my arms and held him til he cried it out!
2007-09-01 15:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at a bit over 75%-difficult to know even if they are born of you!Mysteries of nature hard to drive through!
2007-09-01 16:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. By trying to make them feel better. As they heal so will you.
2007-09-01 15:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by midnightrose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋