Its almost daily that the A comes to my roommate for notes. She'll knock in the morning and wake me up too when i don't want to.And usually its me who has to open the door.She comes inside the room all the time for taking something or the other. It irritates me. Today when she knocked i told her don't come banging on my door daily and what her reply was- its not only your room its her's too. When i said i have a problem then she was like you never enter my room then. I said ok. And now i'm in a fight with one more person. And yes my roommate was sleeping then. When she got up i told her. She takes the notes and gives it to her as if nothing happened. Isn't she a ***** too?She just wants good relation with others. And its me who she tells that the other one has spoiled her notes and behaves normal to them. I hate her i hate everyone i hate to live.
2007-09-01 15:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by melancholy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You didn't do anything wrong because that's normal reaction when someone irritates you. You are who you are. You don't have to be so overconsiderate and kind to those who aren't. You have a right to express your emotion and say it irritated you when she keeps banging on your door every morning. She's the problem one who is lacking in consideration. If I know I upset someone and knew it was my fault, I'd apologize. Don't let people walk all over you.
I'd post a sign on the door knob saying "Don't disturb until noon or something.
As for your roomate, she didn't bother to care that her roommate disturbed you so she's very inconsiderate too. She's not a friend to you. Just try to calm down and reason that it's tough living people because they all have their quirks and they're not willing to change for their roommates. Don't worry about her superficialness to her friends because that's not your problem. It's hers and she's pathetic to complain to you about it. Living with someone is harder because they get to know the real you.
If possible, try to move out. If you get a potential roommate, make clear about your boundaries and rules.
2007-09-01 15:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by little bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know everything but from a religious standpoint. Just be nice. (Very ****** answer i know). Just be nice for the week and if you don't see any difference, tell her once again that its really annoying that you get up to the knocking on the door and open it just because she can't take notes the first time. She should respect the people who are also living in the same room. Notes are less important than your sleep. Your roommate should also consider your life, tell your roommate once again also that its annoying, she can't have good relation with everyone. She should start with you. Tell her that the knocking should stop or she should get out of bed and answer is herself. In my own experience, people are rude. I try really hard not to stoop that low ,try not too, its very hard. All I can write is try being nice, you never know, you might just freak her out, never know. Talking is the key. Well, my friend, hopefully you get the right answer. Good luck.
2007-09-01 15:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't do the right thing. The answer is love not hate. You can't undo the past, but you can say you are sorry for your strong reaction and explain to the "early morning knocker" how disturbing it is to be awaken earlier in the morning than you want to be.
Put the pillow over your head and tune the knocking out from now on. Don't get up and answer the the door. If your room mate cares she can get up and answer the door. Try to love and respect everyone and hopefully they will in turn respect you. Explain to the knocker that is it's very disrespectful to wake you up every morning and that you don't intent to answer the door any more. Good luck!
PS. Pray for them and the situation. God loves you and life is worth living. Lord bless you!
2007-09-01 15:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible you could get another roommate? It sounds like these people are RUDE! You are not wrong. They are both ignorant and I would do the same thing you did OR maybe worse. Try to find a way to get rid of them. Why should you have to suffer for them? Only other thing I can think of is wait till your RM is asleep and then blast the TV or radio so that it might drive him/her away. Sorry you have to go thru that. Consider the source. OH and RUTHIE, he told them and they didn't care!!!
2007-09-01 15:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Wet Doggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woo hoo, i hate life too!! but i dont really understand your question... but the person knockin on your door should be ***** slapped haha cuz i hate being woken up while i sleep especially for stupid reasons
2007-09-01 15:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did okay but you shouldn't let it bother you that they are so inconsiderate . After all you have your rights too. Give it time and let the feelings die down but don't surrender your rights .
2007-09-01 15:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋