have a favorite child?? Yourself or one of your siblings?? How did it effect who you are today??
2007-09-01 14:31:33 · 33 answers · asked by Ginny 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
great question. yes my youngest sister was the favorite. being a favorite or not would not be so bad but when you are not the favorite and abused well that has an effect on you that last a life time. what puzzles me is why if you were treated bad as a child why would you then treat your own children that way? you know how bad it feels so, that should make you not make the same mistakes etc as your parent or parents did
2007-09-01 14:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by shadowkat6927 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
My younger sister who was the baby of the family was the favorite along with my older brother who was the oldest child and only boy. I can't say how it affected me today. I just think parents shouldn't show obvious favoritism because kids can see it.
2007-09-01 14:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, my father was always pretty mean to my little brother so I guess my mom felt she had to show him the love that my father didn't. So he was my mom's favorite for awhile. But now my mom tells me stuff that she would never tell the boys because I'm a girl and I understand what she tells me about my dad and stuff. My dad's favorite was always my older brother because he liked to hunt and fish like my dad did. Overall--I'd say my older brother is the favorite child.
2007-09-01 15:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My oldest brother was my moms favorite, while she pushed the rest of us aside, she still does it today, he's 24 & still lives with mommy, I'm 20 & on my own. But what messes with me most, the rest of the family ignored us too, my lil brother & I got zero attention, unless it was from my dad, then we were told we were spoiled, and then my mom would beat us, while my older sister was grandma's favorite. My lil brother & I weren't aloud to have attention, my mom didn't like it.
Grrr
2007-09-01 14:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parent's were never home. My mom left my dad because he was abusive and she just had enough of it. My mom in order to support us had to get a job and she worked allot so she was never home. My sisters watched me and I was just a baby, 8 months old. My mom has done so much for me and I think she is so strong. My dad is a much better person now but I did get to see his evil side. That effected me more then you can imagine.
2007-09-01 14:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents were divorced and there were three children , Being in a family was just being there. with a few good times occasionally, No favorites . none of us lived in the same house. just saw each other now and then,
2007-09-01 14:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meh, I'm still living with my parents since I'm only 15. But my parents have different favorites: My mom loves my little brother to death, because he has Down syndrome and is her 'special little boy'. My dad prefers me, because he enjoys doing activities and having conversations with me that my brother just can't do.
2007-09-01 14:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by hugsforfrazier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mother tried her best.but I was excluded from the family Christmas when i got in a fuss with my older brother
and i had to sit alone when we did have Christmas get togethers their was room at the table for them.only and i am very sad about that .but i was the one who stayed with mother for nine months all a lone with no help at all.when she had cancer to help her till she died.when it went to her brain.and now i take medicine.mother tried her best.she didnt know how much everything hurt me.seeming to think they were more emportant and speciel then me.You did ask.so i told you
2007-09-01 14:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah i am the 3rd out of 4 girls and my parents always used to spoil my biggest sister and my smallest sister and i was stuck doinall chores not gettin as much but now i don't regret it becuase i know how to clean my own house cook depend on myself and i have a great life
2007-09-01 14:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my parents never chose they loved both my sister and my brothers and I equally. We all got the same amount of attention and love no matter what. But growing up I grew closer to my dad because I was/am the daddy's girl and my sister grew closer to my mom because she was the baby
2007-09-01 14:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋