Dont you hate when people cancel plans on you?

Question

It makes me depressed after. I look forward to do something and then they can be like ya i dont feel like anymore and not have any worries and im like "shiat, now im stuck with nothing to do on a saturday night....."

Wow, theres even a few people in the same situation as me today...
and as for still doing it without them.. i cant really go to their house without them approveing... haha

Answer 1

I especially hate it when they dont call and let you know they arent coming...........and you are waiting dinner, or whatever and no call.............but I dont get upset if they do call and arent able to come........... I just go on with whatever I was going to do......... no need to waste the day or evening........... or event.............

Answer 2

I hate when that happens. Some people are really inconsiderate and cancel last minute. I can understand if suddenly they are sick or there's some emergency. If it's last minute and not an emergency that is just rude. If it happens again and again with the same person I would re-evaluate my friendship with that person. Try to call some of your other friends and see what they're up to. I'm sure you can find something else to do that's fun. Hope you have a good night.

Answer 3

Of course I do, but I can understand if it for a good lagiminant reason. Yes it's rude if they're just doing it for no reason, but it's a part of life. It's upsetting, and I argee with you because I've had friends to do the same to me. If it upsets you so much, I would suggest telling those people whom have upset you how you feel and explain why. If they truly care about you they will understand.

Answer 4

I think everyone is, but we get over it, as long as their reason is legit. You can always go ahead and do what you were going to do on your own. If it's like a club or to see a movie, you could maybe meet someone new.

And you could also just forget about them and devote the rest of the day to yourself.

Answer 5

I can't stand it. It's depressing, you get excited about hanging out and then they say oh, i got some work, or I don't really feel like it today. It's really hurtful especially if you have one friend that just makes plans and constantly breaks them.

Answer 6

OMG, Im so with you on that one, I had this Ex, who was like Im gonna go over there and Kill you. so then I called off from work and he never showed up. ***, made me miss a day at work. Some folks are just so insensitive.

Answer 7

Yea...they sure don't seem to care about us and our part of the plan. Probably a young one that hasn't ever had to think about others and the effect they have on them with their decisions. Argggg Got to wait till they are forty.

Answer 8

the only person who i dont mind cancelling plans on me is my best friend, i love her too much

but everyone else is kinda grr

BUT

lol, most of the times we dont even make proper plans, we just call up a coupla hours before, maybe even minutes and say dyu wanna do this

=)

Answer 9

nicely that is disappointing,yet hate is extremely reliable. Is what that is,life gets in the way at circumstances,and all of us could desire to do the failings we could desire to do,as in case you do not there could be no potential to take on the solid circumstances. locate yet another exciting project to do,besides purely reschedule for yet over again,it isn't the top of the worldwide,so recover from it.

Answer 10

I cancel all the time.

Sometimes life gets in the way of everything else, what can I say?