My b/f loves giving me oral and I enjoy it as well. But he says the back of his tougue will start to hurt and he has to rest....what can we do for him to keep going withut hurting?!?!?!?!?!?! No stupid remarks, please!
2007-09-01 13:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why don't you return the favor and let his tongue get a rest!
2007-09-01 13:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by motherofthree 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I understand how frustrating that is for u..especially when u get very turned on!! Well, I suggest that before he begins to give u oral sex, he can lick some ice or try something really cold in his tongue like an ice cream, for example and then start giving u oral sex; this way his tongue will be less sensitive, he would barely feel any pain and u will love the cold exciting sensation in your private zone!! trust me, it feels really really good!! ;-)
2007-09-01 20:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by flor de mayo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a stupid question. I am not a sex expert though I play one on TV. Um, this is a funny question though just because of the image of your bf going "humfy i meed to stofp now" lol
Ok, so back to the answer. He's just tensing the back of his tongue that's all. It depends if you want more pressure or less. For some girls it depends. If you like harder pressure maybe he's tensing it to give you that. This is so funny, I'm sorry. I never thought I'd get this question. lol.
Find out what the way it is you like it and if it's necessary for him to maintain his tongue tense to do this then maybe he needs to do some exercises. If it's not necessary then he needs to relax is tongue. LOL
This is funny people are going to laugh I'm just telling you. Don't interpret it as bad, we're just laughing because we've been there.
; )
2007-09-01 20:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take short breaks, and try other things inbetween, then have him go back to it, he can rest his tougue and be able to go longer. Also if you keep doing this eventually he will get stronger and the pain will become less
2007-09-01 20:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by timmie00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its kind of like a girl giving a bj... when a girl goes down on a guy after a while her jaw will lock up and be sore, just from the unusual motions.
I think hon that letting him rest is the best option. When his toungue needs a break, have him use his hands :)
2007-09-01 20:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kavasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is he doing it for?
Well the tougue is a muscle so maybe its getting a good workout.
2007-09-01 20:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by PRECIOUS LADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously he's going to get tired out, he's doing some vigorous work! How about slow it down a little, and tell him to be gentle - perhaps have him do strokes so lightly that he's hardly even touching your c l i t. And tease you a bit.
If and when you perform oral, doesn't your neck get a little cramped and tired? Same difference.
2007-09-01 20:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that when his tongue is tired of moving by itself he should move the whole head, in this manner the tongue (which is a muscle) will rest and then be ready for another session of moving on its own.
2007-09-01 20:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Carlos Mal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think he needs to take a break and do other things until his tongue doesn't hurt. That's the only solution i can think of.
2007-09-01 20:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he needs to mix up his techniques more. Some people have tongues that are more sensitive than others.
Maybe he needs to add fingers, toys, etc to his arsenal!
2007-09-01 20:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much unless he changes the direction of his tongue for awhile. Which may or may not be good for you. Try licking different ways. That may help
2007-09-01 20:09:49 · answer #11 · answered by memookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋