Firstly I just want to say I am very happy with my boyfriend. I've never wanted to nor do I plan to cheat on him.
But it's really bizarre, I seem to have some kind of 'crush' on his gay boss! I have never had something like this before, firstly he's alot older than me (by about 20 years though he looks good for his age), and secondly, he's gay! The weird thing is though I got the vibe that he kinda felt a mutual attraction (my instincts are almost always right when it comes to that) and I later found out that years ago, he was married (to a woman).
I don't want to act on it or anything, I just find myself thinking he's really sexy and thinking about what he would be like in bed.
What the hell is going on in my head??!!
2007-09-01 12:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kit 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just fantasize about him and enjoy him that way, it sounds like that is your only choice.
2007-09-05 18:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of him as a sibling, whether brother or sister. Imagine anything you want, but don't get carried away. He's probably no more accessible than Johnny Depp is to me! LOL
I've had lots of gay men friends, brothers who were my boon companions, and very glad for it, too. But I had to put aside any idea of seducing them. Once in awhile we shared . . . well, let's just say that you can't count on it ever getting physical, because if you try, you will probably scare him off.
2007-09-01 12:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What you feel is pretty normal. I knew someone who had a crush on a gay guy, and honestly. There's nothing at all you can do. So don't feel weird, just try to ignore it.
2007-09-01 13:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dinah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a man. You're a woman. Gay doesn't matter - he is still biologically all male. And you're attracted to him. It's normal.
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2007-09-01 12:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel you. I also have crushes on many gay men. They're SO adorable!
2007-09-01 13:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a crush on a straight guy. You can't help who you are attracted to.
2007-09-01 12:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you grow some balls and a cock, you may have a chance.
2007-09-01 12:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋