Why can't I act like a normal human?

Question

I can not talk about normal things with other people.

My dad talk about the way I eat, I don't know how to eat. Everyone staring at me at the dinner table. I get so nervous. My dad is always looking at me while I eat.

When my sister talks to me, I don't know how to act mature. I try but I always fail.

My mom always yells at me everytime I come near her. She tells me to move out the way.

I just can't be a normal human like you people. I want to be like you. I want to be mature and normal.

My father tells me I am a 13 year old, when I am actually 22 years old.

If I can't be a mature and normal human, then it is time for me to go on to the afterlife.

You people are normal.

Answer 1

Hey chum,
This is by the way it sounds.... I would probably say that you have what they call social anxiety. This would be why you tend to think to much when your in siutations making them un natural and akward. I think that you need to either relax. And get out of your own head. If either of these arent possible then go to the doctor and get some medications.

Every thing you can do and say is normal....

Answer 2

Perhaps the fact that you can't act like a "normal human" is psychological. Consult a trusted friend or a psychiatrist, and try and find out what your problem is.

First of all, what defines a 'normal' person? All of us are individuals, and of course we have different standards of what we regard as normal behavior. Perhaps you simply think you're not acting normal, because you're not conforming to the standards of the people around you.

If your behavior is completely out of the ordinary and is harmful to yourself and others, then you need to get help.

You call yourself 'immature', but is it really true?

'Immature' means: lacking complete growth, differentiation, or development. Are you not able to grow psychologically? Is your thinking really as it was 10 years ago? Ask yourself these questions and if the answers are yes, then seek help. If you are able to learn and are responsible enough for your age, then you are not immature. Perhaps you still have some childlike characteristics, but that doesn't mean you cannot act your age.

Ask your family to help you, not degrade you. Maybe part of your problem is that you're trying so hard to please your family, but they don't want to accept how you are. Talk to them about how you feel.

Please do not have suicidal thoughts. Any problem you have can be solved if you try hard enough. It might take a long time and it may be hard work, but if you really want to fix whatever is wrong in your life, then you will be able to do it.

Answer 3

Hold your head up high, because from what you say about your family, I think they're the ones who are not normal, not you. Your dad is criticising the way you eat and looking at you, your mum yells at you, and your father tells you that you're a 13 year old when you are 22. What chance are they giving you? How can you act like a 22-year-old when you're treated like a little kid?

If you're 22, think about leaving home; the sooner the better, I would say.

Answer 4

Trust me dude, nobody is normal. There are many things i wish i could change so i could better associate with others. I just chose years ago to accept who i am and not let the media or the majority tell me what normal actually is. There are a whole bunch of people looking for normal and they use drugs to find a way there. Many people you think are very normal probably cry when alone. You're probably more normal than you think.

Answer 5

Lol. Truth be told, NO ONE is normal. You see by "normal" we mean they share the some of the same traits as others, but none are exactly the same or have all the ones that is defined as "normal." You have many "normal" traits just from being human. You think, you talk, eat, walk on two legs, abstract thinking, ect.

But perhaps what is preventing you from doing what you think to be "normal" is your TRYING to do it. Maybe if you just stop trying and act normal for YOU (as in how you would if you weren't trying to act a certain way) you will do many of the things that you think your not doing...

Answer 6

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Answer 7

It is not time for you to go to the afterlife. Being normal is just a way of saying you are plain, like the majority of people. If it bothers you seek professional help. Talk to your doctor. Talk to your family. Try to tell them you are having difficulties and need their support not their criticism. (This maybe something you want to wait on until after you have started seeing someone for professional help.) Just remember just because you are different (if you think you are different) doesn't make you wrong. Your uniqueness can be a good thing. Good luck.

Answer 8

What are you doing living at your parents still? You need to get out, get some therapy, possibly get some assitance as a base to work from, then learn to be you and not who you think everyone sees you as. That might take a lot of work... 22 and worried about what your dad thinks of you ... jeez! If the light bulb comes and you actually start to grow, you will come to find out what others think about you is much really none of your busines.

Answer 9

When you leave home and begin to live as an adult, this things will be but a minor chapter in your life.

Parents often stunt the growth of their children. Personally, I wouldn't tolerate anyone speaking to me as you have described above. Overly critical people can slowly erode our self-confidence.

Instead of an afterlife, you could also consider an independent life as an adult without parental influence. Humans have the ability t procreate, that doesn't mean they are good parenting material.

Answer 10

Maybe it is because you are NOT human? Maybe papa bear is your father, mama bear is your mother, and you are baby bear?

Goldilocks is actually the only human. Give her a good kick with your hind leg, she will get the message and bug off.

As far as I am concerned you are totally normal.

Yours truly,

From Uncle Panda bear.