I am pretty tough with people calling me names and things, but I can't help but cry if someone raises their voice at me or if there is a group of people around me that are being roudy and loud. Plz and thank you 4 every thing.
2007-09-01 11:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Paigenater 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I was at Mc Donald's with my volleyball team, and somehow I got a girl mad and I just walked away, but I was really upset. Then when I went outside, everybody would not back off!
2007-09-01 11:26:35 · update #1
The quiet words of the wise are to be heeded,than the shouts of a ruler of fools. Wisdom is better than weapons of war,but one sinner destroys much good( Eccl 9:17)
People who shout all the time are fools.
2007-09-08 10:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by yasses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just really sensitive. I know because I am too. I have always lived in fear of yelling and confrontation. Why? I can't say, but probably it has roots deep in being afraid of embarrassment. Also, you probably hate for people to be mad at you. You might be able to handle a little annoyance, but when people yell, that means that they are furious, which in turn, upsets you. It's okay. You may never like being yelled at, but who does?
2007-09-01 11:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by teddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOBODY LIKES TO BE YELLED AT. SOUNDS LIKE YOU COULD USE SOME ASSERTIVENESS TRAINING, HOWEVER. GOOD FOR YOU FOR BEING ABLE TO TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS - THE MORE YOU DISCUSS AND DEVISE COPING STRATEGIES, THE MORE EASE YOU WILL DEVELOP.
THE LAST TIME SOMEONE SCREAMED IN MY FACE I LAUGHED. I HELD MY HAND UP AND TOLD HIM TO BACK UP A BIT, AND HE DID. BUT I WAS ONCE AS TERRIFIED AS YOU SEEM TO BE.
2007-09-01 11:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by GENE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have been yelled at by your parents when you where a kid, I guess stuff like that can bring back emotional memories.
2007-09-01 11:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you do around planes, or jack hammers? You may have a sensitivity to some sounds.
2007-09-01 11:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And i thought my girlfriend was bad. Sorry you have to go through that.
2007-09-01 11:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Unhappy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋