hii, i had a best friend who said alot of crap about me and now we arent freinds anymore, all i want him to do is say sorry, but weve been fighting for like, 3 months, and hes not gonna apologize.. i love ihm alot and we have alot of mutual friends cuz we were best friends for so longg, i can never stop thinking about him even after all this time..so i'm jw..should i just forgive him?? forget all those things he said to me and just say whatever?? i'm so sad about him and its really making me different..so should i just tell him that its ok and ask to be friends again? even though he did all that stuff?? lol, i'm probably confusing, but i really dont know what to do.. any answeres are appreciated<3
2007-09-01 10:42:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i didnt do anything to him,, he said it behind my back to my friends and then he said more wwhen we were fighting about it btw
2007-09-01 11:45:06 · update #1
ouch i know how it feels..:( my friend and i were friends for about 5years bur then he said some stuff.... in the end though i just talked to him and we became best friends again. i really think you should try and talk to ur friend. if he doesn't want to talk give him a while to cool down (1-2weeks) then ask again. if in the end he doesnt want to talk then im soz to say this but u will need to just move on:P well i super hope i helped u can email me if u want at samurai_soldier14.
=^-^= :P
2007-09-01 13:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sean W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already said that he is not going to apologize to you, that should tell you that he doesn't care for your feelings. If he did care, then he would have apologize to you a long time ago. You can't make him say sorry if he doesn't want to. If you go to him and say that it's okay, then you are really saying to him, "It's okay that you act this way, I will tolerate it even more." That's basically what you are saying. No, it is not okay for his behavior. What he did was wrong.
The only thing you can do is forgive him, but you don't have to accept his behavior. That's it. You will always remember what he's said, but you just need to move forward. Don't let him get in the way with your own life. Stuff like this happens in life. Move forward, not backward.
2007-09-01 11:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and talk it out. See if you guys can make a mutual understanding and kinda of see if he realizes his mistake. Find some common ground, set compromises and give it another chance.
Like I always say "stupid fights aren't worth losing friends over."
2007-09-01 11:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by DarkNoel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overlook relating to the letter. It won't artwork by using fact it variety of feels she moved without offering the court docket or the submit place of work with a forwarding address, and he or she made no attempt to pay the fee ticket or locate out a pair of court docket date. the place I stay she could have had a bench warrant issued for her arrest for not appearing, and while they discovered the place she lived they does not deliver a letter, they could have despatched a cop.
2016-10-17 10:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying bad things about you is one thing but ignoring you after . that means you need to forget him and not forgive. you should never forgive a liar and someone who treated you badly.
you aren't going to make the relationship be any better.by forgiving
it is too late now..
2007-09-01 10:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure forgive him.of course you won't forget, but you will feel a lot better, and since you share mutual friends eventually he will realize that he made a mistake and everything will work out fine.
2007-09-01 10:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a friend with a big mouth.
Break up with this person.
Find honest friends.
You are not that desperate for anyone's friendship.
2007-09-02 15:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if this guy starts to say a lot of crap about you, still? I think you two need to find a common ground.........
2007-09-01 10:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jay P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think so, if he's not sorry he's not ur real friend , i would never talk about my friends cause i love them and it ain't right, but if you were angry and you did it you should like apo;ogize. if this jerk doesn't want to he's not worth ur time.
2007-09-01 10:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋