hi my mom took me 4 my first gyno visit and she was waiting outside. it was a male gyno and i felt uncomfortable the -whole- time he kept on rubbing my nipples and my clitoris and sticking his fingers in me for like 10 minutes! plz tell me if this is normal. he did not wear gloves but my friend says her doctor always does and there is a nurse in the room? there was no nurse in my room. ok well if this is normal part of procedure and was i just nervous? i don't want to go back there ever because i really don't want him rubbing my cli toris again!
2007-09-01 10:07:35 · 9 answers · asked by Sheila 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Absolutely not!!! There should always be a nurse in the room when you are being examined. He should not have been rubbing your nipples or your clitoris. This is not part of the normal exam. He should have examined your breasts by mashing around on the entire breast but briefly and only once around your nipples. The fingers inside is part of the exam if he is also mashing on your abdomen at the same time. This is so he can feel the ovaries and feel for masses. He should always have gloves on. You have been molested!!!!! Tell your mother NOW and she should call the police and the American Medical Association and report him.
2007-09-01 10:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Mom 4 · 7⤊ 5⤋
Absolutely not normal. His nurse is supposed to be in there for one. The only time he will stick his finger in you is to do a pelvic exam. But he feels around your cervix, not your clitoris. And he's supposed to be wearing gloves. The pap smeare, he sticks a brush like thing in you to scrape cells off of your cervix and a speculum that opens you up before that. That's it.
For your breast exam, he just feels around your breast for lumps. If you feel uncomfortable, find another gynecologist. Not all male gynecologists are like that. I have been going to mine for almost 4 years, and he has never done anything like that.
2007-09-04 17:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Um. Sorry that's not normal. A Regular exam is NO Fun. And it doesn't include any 'rubbing or touching" other than poking and proding. He made rub some lube on you to insert the speculum, but no...not what he did to you. Report him. Or talk to your mother, and YES..He needs to be wearing gloves...always. And yes...there is supposed to be a nurse in the room at all times. Mine stands right by his side and watches.
2007-09-01 11:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by ChemoAngel 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No not at all Scooter, I assume you met this dear someone here, and what happened in your connection was a growing, and communicating beyond here. I have to believe there was some mutual enjoyment, but "slowly" is the process and I doubt you will be less thought of in the doing.
2016-04-02 22:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is considered sodomy since you are underage (correct?).
No male gynecologist ever, ever is to perform an examination without the presence of a nurse in the room.
You need to tell your mom what happened, this man is breaking the law!
Do NOT go back to him find another doctor and make sure to request a nurse be in attendance.
2007-09-01 10:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by ripsgracie 5 · 10⤊ 4⤋
HELL NO ITS NOT NORMAL. ITS NORMAL OF HIM TO STICK HIS FINGER INSIDE U AND TO TOUCH YOUR BREAST.BUT IT SHOULDNT HAVEC TAKEN HIM 10 MINUTES AND HE SHOULD NOT HAVE RUBBED YOUR CLIT OR NIPPLES. U NEED TO REPORT HIM,AND TELL YOUR MOM. A NURSE SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN THE ROOM TOO.
2007-09-01 12:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Tell your Mom and report this guy. Always demand a female in the room with you. This guy is breaking the law! Has probably done it to others also.
2007-09-01 10:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by the mazda mechanic 4 · 9⤊ 3⤋
I'm really hoping that you're not serious about this. If you are, tell your mom NOW. I hope your OBGYN just lost his medical license.
2007-09-01 16:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
LOL he's a gyno what do u expect... of course he has to touch you/ look at you thats what you pay him for.
Though just don't go back if he makes you uncomfortable get another doc or maybe a female doctor..
2007-09-01 10:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 5 · 2⤊ 14⤋