my ex is a lousy con man. he told me he would pay for a ticket i had for me not to worry. then he also told me he had opened one credit card with my name on it. come to found out he never paid the ticket and i had a warrant out and then also come to found out he changed my address without my permission and also has opened up 5 credit cards in my name without my signature and he left me 6 very verbal abusive messages on my phone. one of them he said i should do everybody a favor and put a gun to my own mouth and pull the trigger. so do you think i should get a restraint order on him or should i go straight to the DA or my brother-in-law who is a lawyer to get all this mess straightened opinions really need and honest ones. the worst thing i said to him is he was a toothless hobo who had no place to stay. also i have changed my phone number because he was sending like 20 text message a day he would not lea
2007-09-01 08:46:11 · 5 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
The ticket is/was your responsibility. The credit card thing and the address change are against the law. You need to press charges and get an attorney for prosecution.
2007-09-01 08:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is correct in telling you that you need an attorney to clear your name. You also need to contact the three credit reporting agencies yourself by mail stating that your identity has been compromised and detailing the 5 credit cards you mentioned so that they can be taken off of your record.
The agencies are: TRW, Experian and Equixfax. He threatened your life with that final message. The fact that you are writing here shows that you either don't take him seriously or are reticent to press charges for whatever reasons. Common sense tells you to take care of this immediately.
Finally, deal with your psychology of allowing your personal responsibilities to be paid by someone else. Do you expect others to take care of you? If you are over 30 years old you should know better. If you are in your 20's it is still understandable. Be careful who you date or allow into your life and always handle your own obligations and financial responsibilities. You are responsible for you.
2007-09-01 16:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Creole38 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good grief. get a lawyer & record his abusive phone calls.
2007-09-01 15:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Veekay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that I heard about his "gun" statement I say restraining order, seriously.
2007-09-01 17:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by TONY H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see a lawyer. hire him with your money so you know they represent you properly.
lawyers (even brothers in law) are all pretty slippery.
2007-09-01 15:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by snarkysmug 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋