2007-09-01 08:46:03 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
as a former cheater, i truly believe that people can change. the feeling of knowing you let someone down really makes you change your ways.
2007-09-01 08:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes!people are entitled and are capable of change once they decide and take the appropriate action leading towards the change.Whats the use of deciding not to become a cheater when youre still doing it?If you have a strong conviction to stop and to change your ways it reflects on your actions. Its our freedom of choice which can never be deprived nor taken from us.Once a cheater always a cheater is only the perception and point of view people have of you either stimulated by you or by others but its mostly by you.The way others see you can change only if you really want to,it starts with that and the rest will follow.Once a cheater always a cheater is a stamp people put on you but fortunately that stamp can be erased.
2007-09-01 08:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person, yes people can change, but if they think they can get away with it they're going to do it over and over again so really I think in most cases its once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-09-01 08:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater
2007-09-01 11:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by I_LOVE_MY_BOYFRIEND!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think to change the person really has to want to change. Cheaters I believe might could, but I am less likely to believe an abusive person could, from both being abused by a woman and seeing women being abused.
2007-09-01 08:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by bolinger81380 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I KNOW people can change because I've seen it happen more than once. The "problem" is that people must WANT to change before they can change. Changing can still be difficult, even when the person truly wants to change. I think people often try to change themselves instead of asking God to change them. Personalities, habits and people can change, but it's usually not an overnight occurrence. I'm praying for you! :)
2007-09-01 16:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by goodworkswellnessresearch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is a cheater in their mind. You just have to love your partner and yourself enough not to do it, and no because some people are capable of changing. If that person don't then he/she never loved in the first place.
2007-09-01 08:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women say of men that 'you cannot change the spots on a leopard' though woman are just as equally guilty.
Like the boy being 'caught with his pants down' - will try to change and to adapt - though, lets not forget, her motives are mens own weaknesses - for then, she will play them out for far longer than man might think. Its called revenge and can be life long thing. People don't change they merely develop a sense of other understanding.
2007-09-01 08:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think they can change if they want to but if they like to have more then one gf/bf then they will always be a cheater in my opinion.
2007-09-01 08:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by lauraboo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good ? to ask. I believe that a person can always change if they want to. But most people dont like to change. So therefore, I believe that if they cheat once then they cant be trusted. I had an ex fiance that was in the Navy that cheated on me. Told me he would NEVER do it again and to trust him and he ended up doing it again.
2007-09-01 08:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tbrat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am a firm believer that people can change. I also think that everyone has in them the potential to be unfaithful. I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. I do believe that people can change.
2007-09-01 08:49:57 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋