Where does all this negativity come from? why cant people get along in their realationship's? why do familly try and make life harder for their children,spouse,siblings,ect....?
2007-09-01 06:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
life is what you make it bae, if your are out there trying your HARDEST to make things work, and thinking positive and being positive and working hard, and treating people around you with respect and how you want to be treated and having God in your life then everything will be better, maybe you need to let go of all the negativie people and negative things in your life. my mom always told me "IT IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT." this situation is like this because some how some where some way you made it all this way..if you change your attitude and change your way about thigns and what you do,and how you treat people all this will change but as long as you continue each day the way it is then its going to remain the same, its your life, you change it..its up to you to fix it and make it better. find something you enjoy and do it, get away, move, whatever it takes to bring that positivity back into your life and if you dislike so much about the ups and downs then try your hardest to never see the downs again..life is ALL about trial and tribulations because thats how we learn and grow, negativity comes within you and what you make of things, you have the power bae to change all those negatives into a huge positive. so stop complaining and do something about it. write down or think about how you can change ur life and the things in it and think about what you are doing and how you are treating other people, alot of this goes into play about what you are getting in return, negative you show towards people is returned to you, people dont get along in there relationships for many many reasons, the reasons could be endless, the thing is that in a relationship two people CAN get along, my parents NEVER RARELLY argue or get into a fight or never say they "cant get along" so what are they doing right that you and i or other people that seem they cant get along or doing wrong? its only some family, that acts like that not all family, but people that do that are negative and maybe bringing there own problems on you and trying to bring you to there level, the explanation and information on these questions and topics aree endless. i just wish you the best and i hope things get better for you, just remember "it is what YOU make it." whatever it is. good luck, keep positive, keep your head up!
2007-09-01 09:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is easy for people to focus on the negative instead of the positive, then you also have those people who are just plain miserable and what does misery love? It's hard to deal with negative people, so what I do is try to stay positive no matter what and keep the negative people at a distance whether it be friends or family. And without trials and tribulations there is no growth, you have to take the good with the bad, that's life. We all experience things for a reason and even if it isn't clear what the reasons are, what is life if there are no experiences, nothing to learn from or relate to? Life would probably be pretty d@#n boring don't you agree?
2007-09-01 06:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont' think people try to make things harder for others on purpose.. i think people go through things that they dont' really know how to handle and it ends up taking a toll on their family or loved one.. the reason life has up's and down's is because it's life.. if it was always one way things would get boring. and as the saying goes "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger" not that we need to be stronger, but because it's lessons and new knowledge to help us better our future or maybe someone else's.. people are negative because they don't have things always going the way they want and that makes them negative.. if everything was positive, yea we might be happy, but there would be a lot wrong with the world. and the reason there are problems in relationships is because people are set in their ways.. one person wants it one way and the other wants it their way.. thats when talking and compermising comes in and if theres no way to compermise then maybe they shouldn't be together.. everyone is different, everyone wants different things, and everyone wants things to be perfect, but they have to realize the first two things and that no one is perfect or will ever be. we have to except each other for who we are as a person and love them for being unique, help them and understand them, and then we will love them.. i know life is rough, more often then we'd like.. but would rather be in it, or not? i rather live a rough life then be underground.. be happy take a second to appreciate things that are simple and smile, it could be a whole heck of a lot worse.. good luck and i'm sorry i went on and on..
2007-09-01 07:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly what life is!! A series of events....good and bad. Sure it would be nice to have long stretches of positive events, but that gets old and boring too. The thing is, that life is challenging, and it should be or there wouldn't be much to it at all. And if we were not constantly challenged throughout our lives, then what would inspire us to be the best that we can be. Just go with it!! Good Luck!!
2007-09-01 07:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by JustAGirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life has up and downs, to teach you lessons. Everything happens for a reason. Life wont giv you more challenges than the ones you can withstand. You just have to be calm, think everything you do, so you wont take any harsh desitions that will be haunting you afterwards.
Challenges are a part of life, if life was all that easy do you think it would be fun to live it ? For things to be worth something they have to be difficult to obtain.
2007-09-01 06:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by sabin_f5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if der s no up's n downs der won b any thrilling n excitement. by all dis negativitly people learn, adapt to positivity. all dis hardship s a way to learn n b more happi in life.
2007-09-01 06:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be trials and tribulations,its how we deal with them that is gonna make you or break you.It will be ok dont stress yourself out.
2007-09-01 06:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the name of life if there were no ups and down then no body would have remembered it. challanged are ment for life and we had to cope up with them so please have a positive spirit
2007-09-01 06:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by poonaforyou_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life wouldnt be interesting if bad things didnt happen. and you wouldnt appreciate the good things that happen to you.
2007-09-01 06:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Karl L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS ONE BIG TEST>>>>>>>>>
2007-09-01 08:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋