Im 9 months pregnant and my baby father always want to leave me alone at nights to go to the club with his home boys and when i tell him to stay home with me just incase something goes wrong, he gets mad and say im holding him back and i dont want him to have any fun.
do u think im been to hard on him? please be honest with him.
2007-09-01 06:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're being too hard on him??? what's wrong with you girl.! you must be feeling the worst at this time, but cheer up. best thing is you're having your baby soon. and you shouldn't even worry about someone that doesn't worry about you and your baby's wellbeing. just think about it. but then you know best what to do, not i, not anyone else. because this is just a part of your story, we don't know the rest. cheer up and love yourself. you'll have your little one to care for soon.
2007-09-01 06:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being hard at all. Tell him that being a father isn't always about having fun. He probably already knows this and is just trying to get in a little fun before he actually becomes a father. Tell him that you understand, but he needs to be a responsable role model for your oncoming baby. Tell him that you love him and you need him now more than ever.
2007-09-01 13:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by cheerbabe2214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, you're not being hard on him! He wants to be single and free. He can have fun with you. I went out even at 9 months of pregnancy. I didn't go to bars, but we would go out to restaurants and stuff. I hope this guy changes his ways because I see trouble ahead. If he's selfish, he won't give you much help with the baby either. It's very important, that you surround yourself with positive people and positive things. if there is anything toxic in the air, you get rid of it. I'm being very serious. Surround yourself with good, and eliminate the bad.
2007-09-01 14:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,your having a baby and he is not will to be co-operative,willing and supportive then you should really be questioning the worth of the relationship for the sake of you and your child,you shouldn't be doing all this work by yourself,if you have some other family members or friends you could discuss this with or stay with then that would be better do not continue this way. :)
2007-09-01 13:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Classy Clarissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no! u are not being hard on him. he is the father and he has got to get use to be at home when the baby shows up. You shouldnt be left with all the hard work he needs to do some too.
2007-09-01 13:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by bribribrianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being too hard on him he should take you with him when he goes out,if he loves you he'll respect your feelings,and with a baby on the way,if he does not want to be around now I hope he stays with you after you have "his" baby. good luck!
2007-09-01 14:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by TAR68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right hes an a**hole. If he got you pregnant he should at least have the decency to stick with you all the way through it, if you can't chill at the club neither should he.
2007-09-01 13:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone will have the same answer as mine.no you are not being selfish,he is..and he knows it.your a couple you should only do couple things.he is looking for trouble
2007-09-01 13:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by pattialfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋