I need some advice?

Question

Okay, so I had this dream last night where my ex boyfriend had become a best selling author and he wanted to see me. At first I was really hesitent. I didn't want to see him, and I definately didn't want him to see me. After hiding from him for awhile he found me and we reconciled things and made nice I guess you could say. We both agreed that we could have been better towards eachother and that we never should have moved in together (which we did in real life). He told me that he and his wife were going through a divorce and that his son was in his custody. that's all I remember, some background info on this particular ex: it was a really really bad relationship that ended a little over four years ago. This relationship tore apart my family and secluded me from my friends. Needless to say it was a really horrible break up.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

Do not think on this anymore.
It was a dream and only a dream. If things where bad before they will be worse in the future.

Answer 2

First, dreams are usually periods of time when parts of our brain are at rest and parts of our brain are still active. The rationale part that thinks and judges and discriminates (picks and choose what we think and how those thoughts proceed) is at rest. The part of our brain that processes thought and remembers things is still active. Dreams are ways of rehashing thoughts to process them and integrate them into memory.

One way that memories are processed and stored into memory (long-term memory) is to associate them and integrate them with previously store memories. Without the rational part of our brain, these associations can occur randomly and can have strange effects resulting in strange dreams.

Memory is composed of several functions. One ifs retention, the storage of memories (long-term memory). Another is retrieval, getting memories from storage into "consciousness". We are not aware, or conscious, of all our memories all the time. We can only be conscious of some memories at any one time. In dreams we may retrieve memories we have not remembered in a long time and they get associated with newer thoughts as a means of storing them.

We dream four to eight times a night depending on how many sleep cycles we have. Drugs can disturb the sleep cycle to some degree, but each is different. Most people do not remember their dreams; some people do. When we wake up in the morning, it is usually just after a dream, so most people who remember dreams remember the ones just before they awaken. People who wake up often at night are likely to remember more dreams, if they have a tendency to remember dreams. Most people lose their dreams in the act of waking up and restoring their consciousness to the immediate present.

So, basically, it was just a dream. Apparently you are questioning decisions you have made recently and are now dreaming that you question past actions. You made the right decision for yourself then. Be careful what relationships you enter into in the future. Usually, problems people had in the past and continued later in their lives. 'Nough said. Stop this cycle in yourself. May you live a peaceful, fruitful, and joyful life.

Answer 3

Quit looking backwards. It was a dream. Face forward and keep moving on..you didn't lose a thing worth wastin a minute looking back.

Answer 4

First of all if all that was a dream or better yet a nightmare than let it go.

Answer 5

i think u shud stop thinking abut it any more as if u ll think bad u ll definitely find sum thing bad in Ur coming days!!!!!!!!!!
so b calm and try to forget it!!!!!!!!!!
god bless u n keep Ur self away from it!!!!!!!
bye