True or false....why....what do you think?
2007-09-01 00:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just a respond to my fan below..you are almost right but in logic they actually never lost him... his blood always within them....he created it in the first place that mean your kids have his blood......I have to say you are smart.....one thing i have to say is that good challege and give good answer can never be wrong...all the best
2007-09-01 01:03:58 · update #1
All in all, what they really fear is losing something that come out from their action, something that they don't have in the first place!
If you don't have or own something, how can you lose it? The answer is absolutely no, right? It is so common that most people didn't even thought about it.
Since the answer is No, then the fear has no reason to exist!
If you have the fears, then you are putting unnecessary stress to yourself, which actually create a negative input to your action, you might be panic, you might start to hiccup and you probably won't be able to address your needs or attention clearly. And that is the reason that affect the output you wanted.
Imagine this, before you approach an opposite sex, you don't know him/her. And if you being rejected, the outcome is : You still don't know him/her. So, there is no difference.
Another example, you are approaching a new client to sell your products. He is not your client in the first place, if he says "No, thanks", you still don't have this client.
Yet another example, you are lost. If you don't ask the stranger for the correct direction, you are still lost!
You have thousands of reasons to take that action, which might change your outcome, a good outcome, but there is only 1 single reason that you might not get a good outcome and the results is there is no difference from your current situation. Then, why not give it a try?
A method that is very effective is always question the negative outcome of your action, how bad can it be? And, will you really lose something that you have now?
Fear and stress is an outcome from our mind, not anything else; change your mind and the mode of thinking, and all these will disappear by itself.
The Mind Is The Limit.
2007-09-01 09:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by paul s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In such situations,what you appear to gain or lose,is called a NOTIONAL gain or loss,which is not a gain or a loss as in real terms. But in real terms and on a materialistic basis,one can't lose some thing which he doesn't have.
2007-09-01 08:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose also u could lose a quik pick winning powerball ticket that was worth a million bucks.
That would be losing something that u did not know u had.
2007-09-01 08:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by andyg77 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you can lose something without actually having it the perfect example of this would be me.
i went out with my ex and we broke up. i had hI'm and lost him.
simple you might think but.... im pregnant with his triplets.. so technically my babies have lost him without actually ever having him, because hes not interested.
does that make sense, my unborn kids don't know him, so they lost him before they even had him as a dad.
2007-09-01 07:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
interesting question, we have a picture of ourselves which might not be real and once we come to know that we have lost the some thing that we never had
2007-09-01 08:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot.
2007-09-01 08:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by S Martypsnts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋