my dad left my mom last year? i only know his email and his address. what do you think would happen if i went to his house?
ps he is a cop
2007-08-31 23:14:17 · 15 answers · asked by nicolereneeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my dad wont fight for me...he is weak. i just want contact with him . like to be on speaking terms.
2007-08-31 23:21:24 · update #1
i havent talked to him since feb '06...i saw him oct '06 but he ignored me...i ust really miss my dad...i ust wish i could have something with him...
2007-08-31 23:28:41 · update #2
i kno for a FACT that i am his. i look MORE davenport than anything anyway. i look indian not mexican...more mexican than indian so **** YOU who think im not!!!!
2007-08-31 23:59:20 · update #3
go see him
2007-08-31 23:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by SAM R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think popping up and surprising him at his house will give you the results you are looking for. You may show up at a bad time, he may not be home, a girlfriend may be there, etc. An email saying exactly what you said here is a good start. Ask for him to come pick you up or tell him you could meet him, but tell him you miss him and need him and want to get together. See how he responds and go from there. Good luck to you.
2007-08-31 23:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! a lot of my buddies are divorce legal specialists and opportunities are high he divorced your mom or is ineffective. If he left and has paid no help or contributed to the help and welfare of the family individuals or your mom, he has lost his rights to collect something. in spite of the undeniable fact that, interior the opposite, if he had a providence, had a pension or a extensive mark downs, she would be able to collect his SS and a million/2 pension after HE DIES. If he's married and has extra childrens, that isn't any longer a legal marriage without him getting an "ex parte" divorce and that must be after 7 years. Years in the past my pals spouse left him and he on no account heard from her. After 7 years he have been given a legal divorce from the courtroom and re-married. His spouse lost all her rights from that momment on. returned, basically an legal expert or PI can help you and in case you mom does not pick help, little you're able to do. in spite of the undeniable fact that, he will NO authority of entitled to ANY advantages if he shows up suddenly. and that i will inform you at present, that sometimes basically occurs on television. as quickly as all of us is long gone that long, they have completely forgotten appropriate to the previous and moved on. i will promise you he won't happen and gain the repercussions of his leaving from any decide if he tried to interfer. forget approximately it and pass on with your life and leave you mom on my own. If he have been to ever happen, he lost his rights years in the past whilst he left. So relax, that isn't any longer Hollywood, that is actual life, he's entitled to no longer something. M
2016-10-03 11:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by lepeska 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok ur dad left, u are still his son/daughter, whatever it is he is still ur responsible, and u are his responsible too...
Meet him, its ok, doesnt mean he left ur mom, he left the whole thing...
Email him by saying u want to meet him, than if he doesnt reply, just go on the second step go to his house... or his working place (if u know)
So, good luck! Never neglected a father or mother LOVE.
2007-08-31 23:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by aSyiDaH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He left you too. Does he try to have a relationship with you? Do you see him on your birthday? Christmas? Thanksgiving? Do you see him at all?
Go and try a surprise visit. Catching him off guard is the best way to gauge how he sees you.
If he reacts to you in hostility, don't bother with him.
If he welcomes you with open arms, you have your father back.
2007-08-31 23:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by runner1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see your really hurting on this breakup, your 17, you need to be thinking about a college or trade school. Sometime parents do not realize how much they have hurt the children. Really if I were you, I would go to his precinct and tell him you need to talk to him in private. Just tell him that you still need him. That simple.
2007-08-31 23:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Conrey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont ask ur mom to go and just run away ur dad will probably try to get u back to ur mom to avoid trouble
2007-08-31 23:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you know the entire story.
For a father to ignore his child liken this brings one question to mind.
Are you his?
The Rat
2007-08-31 23:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u love him , tell him that and ask him what will happen if u go and live with him
2007-08-31 23:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by mdsubahi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your father wants no contact with you. You can't force him to have contact with you.
2007-09-01 09:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should behave normally and try to make enough contact with him after all he is your dad
2007-08-31 23:19:29 · answer #11 · answered by mani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋