2007-08-31 22:18:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you really can't...
but after all it's still a matter of going on...
2007-08-31 22:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by jaycellann_20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you considered each other to be one's life, both of you... it's no use saying goodbye forever.:) It is... like trying to run away from yourself. You owe so much to this person. You've shared your whole life with him or her. You have so many good memories about the time you've spent together. You simply can't cross this experience out of your book of life, and neither can this person. You won't be able to do it.
If it is an end of a long relationship, you have no need of this paphos of breaking up, like 'Goodbye forever!' or 'It's our last date, never call me again!'
You have to talk. And understand, both of you, how many things you've been through together. Respect this experience that you have! Life goes on and each of you probably has his or her own way to go, it's obvious that you can't make another person love you by force. You are different. But there is no need to cross each other out! This person will stay there for you, and its only you and this person that know what exactly you've shared in your lives! :) There is nothing dark about being different, we all are! And you are not loosing each other. You simply follow different routes... Sure, it won't be the way it used to be. But hey, life's full of surprises, no one knows what kind of even better experience can be just around the corner!:D Take it easy, no one is going to die! The person is gone not when you break up. Its when he or she is really gone.
And this shift of routes in life -... It's a challenge! :) Challenges make our life both interesting and hard. Take it easy and don't be afraid!
2007-08-31 22:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Impulse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different things for different people. Some cry, some drink, some just walk away. I have had this conversation with my wife and I promised her I would remarry as long as I'm not 100 years old. Perhaps go to Asia and petition somebody who wants a chance at the American dream. Seriously, try counseling.
2007-08-31 23:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to keep in mind is that the someone was not your life, but a part of all the miracle that is your life. That you were blessed to have that someone as part of your life, that you will always have that person in your heart and memory, and that they will be with you as long as you need them to be there.
Remember your someone as you continue your journey, share the good that someone brought to your life with others you meet along the way. In this way, your life together will continue through your good thoughts and deeds.
2007-08-31 22:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing right now and it sucks, big time. I've tried keeping myself busy with friends and pushing my thoughts about this guy to the back of my mind, but I have been unsuccessful some days and I've sent him messages and called him, both of which I really regret now. I don't know your exact circumstances, but if it was a break-up, whatever you do, do NOT try to talk to him/her. If it was a death, you should consider counseling.
2007-08-31 22:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..i m nt sure it is the right way of not..but wht i think for this is that...i guess u hv a lot to say to that person before sayn gooodbye forever...so.u can write ur words of heart on a paper n give it to the person n just say plz keep it with u forever....
hope atleast ur words would always remember ur existence to that person in life....
2007-08-31 22:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by geetu k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy, but a good support system of family and friends really helps, also keeping yourself busy with things that interest you.
2007-08-31 22:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Unaware 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
goodbye
2007-08-31 22:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Brett H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get a life. sorry, if some else is your life then you need a life of your own. it will make letting go so much easier, still painfull, but easier.
2007-09-01 05:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Alley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a big hug follow by a kiss and exchange gifts to treasure for life.
2007-08-31 22:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how to.... I simply don't say it... why to? it would be much smoother and easier for the heart and mind... they might get hurt for a while, then forgive you... but this is better than getting hurt forever
2007-08-31 23:24:06 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋