i kinda am honestly :). it will be very stressful because i will apply for college and scholarships this fall, and i will have to juggle a job, my courses, and my big senior project!! but i will graduate with honors in June of 2008 :D.
so this coming Tuesday, i will be returning back to school for my last year as a Senior. yes, this means i am in the fabulous Class of 2008!!! and this is the year when i will have to make some huge decisions that will affecrt my life forever. i have mixed feelings. and i have to admit, im a bit scared of making some of those decisions....what if they turn out to be the wrong ones??? i guess only time will tell.
how would honestly you feel if you were in my position???
2007-08-31 21:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well I've been in that position.
I'm a sophomore in college now.
Just get through the last year...you're in honors so it shouldn't be a big problem for a smart cookie like you.
Oh yeah and enjoy it while you can.
When you get to college...the real stress begins. =) I mean yeah along with some amazing times...probably the most amazing times of your life!
Kudos!
2007-08-31 21:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by savestheday0288 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The legal age is 16 in Canada, so that takes away the problem of statutory rape. I'm 14 years older than my partner, but then I'm in my mid 50s and he's in his early 40s which gives us a lot more life experience in common. If anything, he's the "brake" on my impetuosity, and when I'm all gung-ho to go skydiving from a plane he's the one who will remind me I had my knee replaced just six months ago and is skydiving REALLY such a good idea! If I were going to make a suggestion: work on becoming friends -- and very good friends, at that -- before even considering introducing sex into the relationship. You already have a good deal of life experience which he doesn't; and one thing which is common among gay and straight guys is that our first real romantic and sexual experience is really intense and it's real easy for us to get our hearts broken. He may be gorgeous, and look and act like an adult, but he is still 16 years old. I'm not saying that you shouldn't have a relationship with him at some point, but I don't think you want to risk breaking his heart, especially while the two of you are sharing a lease -- so my suggestion would be to GO SLOW.
2016-05-18 05:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by carmela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your position 19 years ago (ouch!) and I remember being so excited about going into my final year, but nervous too as i knew it was going to be hard work.
In the UK the final year is when you sit your exams which in a way create the path for the rest of your life, and it's a lot of pressure on a 16 year old!!
My advice to you is enjoy every minute and work as hard as you can, this is one of the most important years (and the most enjoyable) of your life.
Good luck and all the best for the future, I'm sure you will make the right choices, just go with your gut feeling.
2007-08-31 21:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be excited because you know that you have accomplished something positive in your life, I fisrt want to commend your on being an honor student. Both of ny daughters are colleges graduates and not that they acheived came easy, they worked went to school and wasn't blessed enough to get scholorships and I know you being as smart as you say that you are that you have the drive the will and the capabilities to over ride in fears that you have. Sweetheart, I know that you are young and you are suppose to feel feel and pressure and confusion, but just what you shared with us all I personally believe that you can do this. I believe that you will go very far in life and achieve many great things as long as you don't allow fear to take your life over. there is nothing to fear but life itself.Baby let me tell you I am an adult and I still make wrong and bad decisions. You are still growing and learnning, don't ever be afraid of making making decision and please don't ever be afrais of making mistakes because out making mistakes and wrong decisions in our lives then we won't know what to do and what not to do. Remember sweetie this is how you learn and grow , and progress in life, believe you will not be the first one to make a wrong decision and you definitely won't be the last so you remember that when you are in doubt. You just continue to do what you are doing and I know and believe in my heart that you will excel in all of your endeavors. Don't be afraid you can make it and you can do this! I will be praying for you and I will also be routing for you because believe that you are a smart girl in manys ways. It's okay be afraid and it's okay to make wrong decisions this is how we learn and grow. I truely wish you the very best. YOU GO GIRL!
2007-09-08 16:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lesa Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your position about 48 years ago.
You can make mistakes at your age and recover from them. Being a high school senior is a lot of fun. Enjoy the experience. Nothing else will ever be quite like it, not even your senior year in college.
I think you'll be just fine. Have fun and don't worry too much about these things.
2007-08-31 21:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, i thought i hated school until the last day saying our goodbyes and realising that half of my great mates who i had the best of times with would never see again. i still now wish i could do the last year of school again and if i had the oppertunity to i 100% honestly would. i had the most amazing friends and the most amazing laughs.
2007-09-07 03:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next year is my last year of high school. I will feel exactly what you state above, I guess.....
Scared of incoming events,things,situations and decisions that I will make.
Hope both of us will survive well!
2007-08-31 22:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by FARdreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get excited on your LAST day of your last year of high school. Otherwise you'll be hysterical midway through the year and blow a few brain cells. It is exciting though, good luck!!
2007-08-31 21:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by lilredhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be excited, but sad for it to end. And i would fear making the wrong choices to. I would hate to be separated from all my friends that i met in school and go to collage, where you have to pay you own bills, buy your own food, and pay your own rent. I would be sad to be giving up Childhood...good luck!
2007-09-08 16:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because in high school a lot of kids were trying to show off that their parents drive a nice mercedez or bmw and have a lot of money
2007-09-08 15:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋