People treat me mean for NO reason, & others say that there must be something I do to make people hate me. But how would I know if they don't tell me?
2007-08-31 19:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
When people are mean to another, it is something in themselves that leads to this. There is probably something about you that reminds them of something they don't like about themselves.
(Not that the following example are you, just examples)
For instance people who are average intellegence, but want to be known as smart may be mean to someone who is smarter than they are because it hurts that that person is something they want.
Another example could be that a person dislikes weakness because they were taught it is wrong to be weak, so when they see what they interpret as weak, they get mean toward the person.
When people are mean to you for no reason, it is really no reason for you, but inside of them they have a problem that is affecting how they treat you. Doesn't seem fair does it, that you should be forced to deal with the issues of another.
2007-08-31 19:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. infact your me a couple yrs ago and honestly, it's because people like us let others walk all over us and people are mean because they don't respect that. I know it shouldn't be this way, but its reality. it took me a long time because i knew that it was the fault of others and when it comes down to it, we let in negativity, and opportiunities for them to comment etc......take it from me and don't get burned and listen to my advice. I'm a people person and love to talk. I also found people listening to me gab all my personal stuff without them saying a word about their life and that just pissed me off, so i've become super private. All of a sudden my life changed, I started getting people to call me when i was the only one staying in touch etc.....try it
2007-08-31 19:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by mna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who treat others mean. It is not for no reason, it is because they ARE mean people and like to make other people miserable. But it is not YOUR issue, it is theirs.
2007-09-01 05:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, things will frustrate others for no reson just because of how difrent people can be, so it may not be you, it could just be your around a bunch of stressed out people or angry people, if it is you... try being around them and dont say much just listen to what they say and how they ack. Most people wont tell your doing somethign to make them mad, most of the time they will just think your selfish, or an asshole yourself.
2007-08-31 19:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a softie then people will treat you mean. You have to be an ******** in this world to get respect for others
2007-08-31 19:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they wanna scare you and say that they are the boss. they are trying to be the best and want people to be weak. just ignore it or stay out of their way. pray for them and be nice. if you dont react looking scared or helpless, they will leave you alone.
2007-08-31 19:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just saying. I can be mean too. But reason will be- my bad mood.
2007-08-31 20:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Russian woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason.
They won't tell you if you don't ask. And if you ask and they don't tell you? Then that is THEIR PROBLEM not yours and you shouldn't give it or them another thought about it.
2007-08-31 19:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by LM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are bullies and they are trying to brainwash you into thinking being mean is justifiable all the time!!!
2007-08-31 19:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by daddyz_gurl_emg 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A bully shows signs of insecurity; weakness lies within themself.
2007-08-31 19:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋