would you marry a woman with 5 kids already? all 5 kids are step ladder babies and the oldest is 10 years old? and 5 of the kids had diffrent fathers? i know someone who did that and people are calling him crazy. what would you guys think?
2007-08-31 16:20:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one should be calling him crazy right now. It will be much funnier when he calls himself that in a couple of months!
2007-08-31 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about any other guy but as for me, if I wanted to marry her, 5 kids wouldn't stop me.
We all come with baggage. The older you are the more the baggage weighs. I would have been considering all visible aspect of the relationship with an eye toward marriage long long before I ever popped the question.
Case in point. My wife of over 36 years is the latest person I have ever met. I am the super punctual type. If I have an appointment with you and I am late, call the cops because something serious has happen. At any rate I was aware of the mismatch and decided to accept it. My dad says the first 40 are the hardest so in three and a half years we can declare our marriage a guarded success.
It isn't like buying a new car. You don't get to order it exactly as you would like it. I suppose it is more like buying a used one. If you can't drive a standard transmission that would probably be a show stopper but if you wanted a cigar lighter and the car didn't have one, well you could add one or live without it.
Relationships are far more complex than anyone on the outside can possibly imagine.
That's a very interesting question. I can't imagine anyone being able to give you a serious answer and keep it brief. The 5 kids are certainly a variable but only 5 of maybe 250,000.
Cheers.
2007-08-31 23:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not getting the jist of the question here...if its that u wanna know if a guy likes a gal that has 5 kids would he marry her...if he loves her and she loves him why not?
Who cares what other people think? We seem to place too much emphisys today on what others think...who's life is it anyway?
I watched a Montel show this week where the family had 16 kids with another on the way...i'm sure some say they r idiots but they r happy and thats all that counts...if a guy marries a gal with 5 kids from different dads, who should care other than the guy and the gal.
2007-08-31 23:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say he's crazy and the girl he married was "easy". When a woman has kids by another man, that's okay, when a woman has 5 kids by 5 different fathers, then she's just "easy".
2007-08-31 23:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
A girl with 5 children and each with a different father. I can see real problems there. I do feel for the kids though.
2007-08-31 23:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he fell in love with the person and not her kids. Just because she may be easy doesn't mean she isn't worth loving. She's just made the wrong choice a few (5 times) can't fault her for trying.
2007-08-31 23:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by M M 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
5 is to many 2 maybe 1 yes i wouldn't not five especially different fathers the good thing about this she is getting good child support or dam welfare money food stamps dam her if she is
2007-08-31 23:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit unusual but heck, if the guy loves the woman and likes kids, they don't necessarily have to be his own. Kids grow on you.He is to be comended.
2007-08-31 23:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like it would be a challenge, but if i loved the woman, i would. besides i make enough money that i could easily support a large family of that size
2007-09-01 00:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is a bad deal, she needs to get her life together and stop thinking that all she is is a sex toy for men with low self esteem
2007-08-31 23:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Brian C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋