We have been married 2 1/2 years, and he agreed to "try" for a baby. Now it seems like when it's that right time of the month to try he finds excuses why we can't have sex. When I try to talk to him about it, he either doesn't want to discuss it, or he gives me all the reasons why we shouldn't have kids. Any advice? Thanks
2007-08-31 16:09:14 · 7 answers · asked by Penny P 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's not ready yet. For whatever reason he's not willing to have kids yet. Maybe he's worried about the responsibility, or has other priorities at the moment. Or maybe he has some concerns about your abilities to be parents. And don't assume he lied, or is playing you. That's a huge assumption to make without some clearer evidence. Things change and maybe he doesn't feel as prepared for kids as he thought he would.
2007-08-31 16:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's had a change of heart. I would be concerned about that. I suppose you could not tell him your trying for a baby and go ahead and get pregnant anyway, but that won't help the marriage. You need to find out what's going on with his feelings about you.
2007-08-31 23:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can work this out..he should tell you how much longer he wants to wait then you need to see if you are willing to wait that time and or find something in between you both can be happy about..but you both need to agree about it or one will be upset with the other. good luck
2007-08-31 23:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Penny...you answered one of my questions, and I thank you so much for that. In my opinion, it seems he may be delaying for some reason. I hope it works out for you.....ask one of his friends if he has said anything to them about it? Never know?
2007-09-02 20:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by crysco22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you and he played you. It may be time for seeking help and coming to a compromise.
2007-08-31 23:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He changed his mind.
2007-09-01 00:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is holding him back, money, lifestyle or not ready.
2007-08-31 23:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋