is it worth staying w/him if he bugs you mostly?
& i mean he can really bug you. not so bad other than that
2007-08-31 15:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by jennie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you made vows
keep them!
2007-08-31 15:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say what he does that bugs you, but if it's so annoying that you can't ignore it, you either need some couples counseling or you need to decide if it's worth staying in the marriage. I think most people come to realize that all of the material perks in the world don't make up for a rich and fulfilling relationship.
2007-08-31 22:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many ppl take the easy way out of a marriage. u married him for better or worse. so u need to find wht it is that u lost n fix it. work on it. find a way to repair it. the easy way out would b to end it. but wht next? anotha husband n then the same pattern? nope. fix wht it is, I have had those moments b4 I am still young n been married jsut this once for 14 yrs . I got thru it n things is really great now. add some sex toys too, it helps, n u dont have to do everything together all the time, jsut dont cheat.
2007-08-31 22:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends what you want out of life. Do you want the frills that he can give you, the safety and security? Or are you looking for a partner, a soul mate that doesn't bug you and whose company you really enjoy? You have to decide what you want most in life.
2007-08-31 22:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by aja5505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FUGGIDDABOUT ALL THOSE OTHER ANSWERS AND READ THIS!Be very honest with yourself-do you really need him to get the frills?(whatever they are)Why do you feel you have to be around someone who "mostly"bugs you?GUESS WHAT?It only will get worse over time-and next thing you know all of those years will have been wasted because you never took the time to answer my questions!!
2007-08-31 22:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by paulalinettegarrison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love is there, then yes...it's worth staying...because I'm sure the bugging goes on both ways. If there is no love left however, it wasn't truely meant to be.
2007-08-31 22:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Hazy Daisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you are madly in love with him for 30 days!
After awhile you won't have to act anymore.
Look for the good in him, he must adore you or he wouldn't spoil you.
Sounds like you're a tad materialistic if you're willing to marry a man for the "frills". Very sad.
2007-08-31 23:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by jreba_family 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night, sit down with him on the couch and turn the tv off, and say you'd like to talk for 15 minutes. Tell him what bugs you about him. Don't pick, don't nag, just say, I have a problem with - and talk to him about it.
2007-08-31 22:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he bug you before you got married you apparently dealt with it then if you love him still you will learn to deal with it now you probably do things that bug him too that is just marriage
2007-08-31 22:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kelli sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a relationship to me ... What drew you together in the first place ??? Go back to basics !
2007-08-31 22:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Answerman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you consider leaving him before you'd consider counseling?
Sounds like taking the easy way out to me!
2007-08-31 23:39:59 · answer #11 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋