Why are women so...?

Question

1. Obsessed with revenge
2. Irrational to an extreme
3. Obsessed with wasting money on shoes and clothes and purses
4. Obsessed with "the style" and designer crap
5. Insistent on keeping their men from their friends (holding them hostage, basically)
6. Think it's OK to spend their husband's money and have an allowance

and many other things women do that just make NO sense!

What is wrong with (the majority) of women? Why can't we all be sane? Why are most so incapable of being rational? It's baffling!

Perhaps I'm speaking of a specific group of female? I am a female myself. Think Hollywood, waste of money. Ever heard of a place called Ashburn? Women there have no respect for their husbands.
Perhaps my view is a step backward, but it's true..in a specific group.
I just dont see why people seem to think its ok to be that way.

Treat women like a personal slave
(only a specific group of men do)
Do not show their real emotions
(theyre raised not to...be a man...no emtion)
Like to cheat on their girlfriends/wives
(women do it too)
Worry about penis size and not their kindness
(women put that pressure on them)
feel they have to act mean and tough to get a girl
(most women are attracted to jerks)
Spend money on things like fancy fast cars, expensive golf/hunting/fishing trips.
(guess thats the same as women with their shoes)

As my mom would say...

-Let the MAN do it.
-Why did you give your dad his credit card back? Dont you understand there is a special sense of communication between women? You give ME the card!

All the hell I catch from this question will be from the women im describing, so i dont give a DAMN what they have to say. They're ignorant and rely on the MAN to do all the work so they can spend his money on pointless and useless things all the while keeping him locked up at home. So, you want to give me hell you ignorant women? Go for it, it just proves my point.

Appropriate behavior is not treating men like YOUR personal slaves. Being kind and generous instead of self absorbed. I asked WHY most women think its OK to act that way when in common sense, it is never ok to treat people like that or act like selfish little 5 year olds that think they are princesses.

Answer 1

i think thats a pretty sexist and ignorant assumption.
Philos sophia is an open minded- not closed minded, aproach to better mankind, this question is a step backward not forward.

Answer 2

To suggest that the"majority of women" behave in such a manner is really an illogical fallacy. It may seem that way to you or others but that's a general statement that really does not fit the bill for women everywhere. Having said that, I know of women who participate in such acts that would deem them selfish and egotistical. I personally believe that people in general will act and behave in a certain manner based on some deficits that they possess as human beings:

1) They may enjoy being the center of attraction - has to be noticed all the time - could be as a result of many varying factors
2) Have too high a self esteem of self and feel that everyone/thing is below them so they treat others badly
3) Simply was not taught how to appreciate and be appreciated
4) Or, some just posess really poor self esteem which can create a domino effect on everything/everyone they come in contact with

I'm glad you asked this question, I hope that people will read and respond keeping in mind whether male or female this question - "Do I act in such a selfish manner with those I love"....good food for thought!

Answer 3

1. It's natural
2. Not always true. It depends on personality to personality
3. They don't know the importance of money and it's real value. IN their minds, it's only meant for spending, that is all.Very few must be investing in Good books, creative materials. However, so far, there is NO survey taken on this. It's worth taking that. The natural instict for Shoes is, always to pose themselves to be high in the society and for clothes, they just want to cover their lust.
4. Again it's natural to adopt new things. They want to be with the modern age. Styles reveal the personality. There is always room for developing it. In that pursuit they follow it.
5. It depends on Culture and impact. Advanced and 21st century women wouldn't hold anybody and vice versa. Only less educated and traditional way is to hold on. However, it also depends, How she could hold on to. Whcih ideas she will implement in holding on her man. Before taking such drastic step of restraining a man from his friend, woman must think twice before taking an action. She must realise the consequences and the after effects of that. It will also counts as far as the COMPANY is concerned. In whose company, he is involved in. If it's for a good cause, one must induce. However, if it's for other activities like........one must restrain from
6. Every right of doing that. At the same time, she also must contribute for a good cause.

What you think about the above sensible things. All the above material has got a deep value, only if you go to the root casue of the matter.

All the former things are that way very sensible. If one just think to invest her own time in some creative and fruitful activity, even the above foolish things would not penetrate the mind.

As it's always said that an Empty mind is devil's workshop, look good things in life and you can solve this puzzle.

Answer 4

If you can answer those questions you should be able to receive a PhD!! Of course you could ask why men:
Treat women like a personal slave
Do not show their real emotions
Like to cheat on their girlfriends/wives
Worry about penis size and not their kindness
feel they have to act mean and tough to get a girl
Spend money on things like fancy fast cars, expensive golf/hunting/fishing trips.
Now if you could answer that as well I think you should be granted a PhD in Psychology! heck even 2!! =)

Answer 5

Will you marry me? That is the smartest thing I've ever heard. Women are crazy! They think they control men, they think they need all the clothes in the world, they never let anything go, that includes arguments, resentment, and old junk they don't need anymore. Of course, there are a few exceptions (very few). I never ever thought I would hear a women say that.

Answer 6

Well, my wife likes to be just generally mean to me on a daily basis, talk about irrational!

It's as though everything we own is for the express purpose of her amusement or use and nothing I own or want matters in even the slightest way.

She's more obsessed with the shoes than any other aspect of normal womanly behavior.

She has her own little style which I actually really like.

You are right about my friends, or should I say my former friends, even my brother openly hates her because she won't ever let me get the chance to go and kick it with him or anyone else that she didn't introduce me too.

It's like she just decided who it was OK for me to be friends with and chooses these freakin dorks, nerdy-*** dorks that I DO NOT WANT TO KICK IT WITH.

They are nice people don't get me wrong, but I kinda like picking my own friends, ya know?

When we got married I quit smoking cigarettes for her, I mean it's been nearly 2 years now and I haven't smoked once, I even stopped drinking for the first year of our marriage just so she wouldn't get the wrong idea about me.

I didn't want her to think I was dependent or anything like that.

I gradually faded into drinking once or twice a week, not too much, but a little here and there.

Everything I earn working I basically just give her or pay bills with, even what ends up in my pocket goes toward taking her out enough to satisfy her eating-out and shopping lust.

I think you are right she doesn't make any sense.

I wish I could identify what is wrong with her.

She really is quite incapable of being rational.

But other than her selfish behavior we do have good times together.

I love her but she's just used to being treated like a high-maintenance little princess with everyone catering to her every whim.

I will not succumb to her intolerant narrow attitudes and rationalities about life in general and she both hates that and is embarrassed by it.

She thinks that I'm weird because I've gotten past the stage in my mental development that requires other people's opinions of me to be any certain way for my happiness to result.

I simply do not care what anyone thinks of me and I am not going to let anyone's judgments or opinions change me in the slightest.

She is quite simply stated, THE ABSOLUTE OPPOSITE.

She ALWAYS worries what everyone around her is thinking, no matter where we are, or what we're doing.

It's as though she feels the constant eyes of all of her onlooking judges and carries the weight of their scrutiny on her shoulders every moment of every day of her life.

She does this willingly, without even the thought of being free of them.

She wants to match up to everyone else's standards for how she should be, while her own standards for how everyone else should be are delusional at best.

She is obsessed with domination and power, she wants to control the world but wouldn't have any idea what to do if anything actually came into her control.

She would ruin her own life if she had the chance, just with her stupid behavioral patterns.

I've tried every bit of philosophy, psychology, and teaching method I have at my disposal to correct these deficiencies of character and social-disorders that she openly displays.

She simply will not budge, her family instilled alot of these should I say anti-values into her mind.

It is deep rooted psychosis and goes all the way back to her early childhood.

The only thing that I believe can truly heal her mind of these problems and free her to be herself and truly herself with no one else's eyes and judgment being taken into her mental account is the one true God and time.

I've been steadily pumping scripture into her mind since we've met and she HAS responded somewhat benignly to it.

It is anyone's guess how long this will have to go on until she'll be entirely cured, if she ever is.

Please pray for me, I don't care if you don't believe in God, if you don't then what will it hurt to humor me and say a quick prayer for me?

J

Answer 7

why arent you obsessed with revenge? why arent you irrational to the extreme? btw saying that about women being irrational to the extreme is irrational itself. i do agree tho...they are very ego oriented but act like frickin sugar lol

Answer 8

yeah I know exactly what you're saying, so I've gone against that all....I mean if I start doing that, maybe others will eventually do the same too

Answer 9

my my that's quite the little rant. Just one question, who put you in charge of what is or is not appropriate behavior for "most women"?