First off, i'll admit i am clingy, dependent, desperate for attention, easily made jealous, all that stuff that nobody likes in a friend. not really with guys (i'm 15, not into that yet haha), but with my close friends it's out of control. if one of them hangs out w/ another without me, i get so jealous and think they don't like me anymore and that i'm losing her even though i'm not. i don't know what to do! obviously i have some self-esteem issues because normal people don't get jealous when 2 of their friends hang out. what can i do to make this better? how can i stop caring so much about stupid crap like this? the thing is, it's really making everything worse. knowing i'm a jealous freak makes me think they don't want to be my friend even MORE. it's like a never ending cycle. thanks for help in advanced!
also, telling myself "i'm not losing her"doesn't seem to work. it's like trying to memorize a formula you never even understood in the first place. :[
2007-08-31 14:08:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your at that special age where beginning to develop who you are and I think that your feeling may be normal. Your job is to control your emotions and learn to enjoy spending time by yourself. Be at peace with who you are and love yourself for who you are. Everyone on the earth has flaws. Develop the things that you think you need to improve and keep marching forward.
Be glad for the gift of life. The reason why I say this is because I know at times you may feel others are prettier, smarter, more popular or just do not like you and you must teach yourself that it is okay. Because you are special and unique in your own way.
Young kids have to handle rejection. Sometimes the people we like to do always like us the way we like them. Give it time and if possible read books. Your at a point each on of us goes through. Want will define you is how you handle it. Don't think you are not normal or necessarily have self esteem issues. Your growing.
When I was your age a had particular friends I like and wanted them to around me all the time but with time I got over it. Just enjoy being young you'll only be 15 yrs once. The same for each year of life you can not go back and live it over.
At the end of the day we only really have ourselves and God.
Be young and full of life. Good luck.
2007-08-31 14:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by 007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is different , be happy with who you are , your perfect for someone , did I just gloss over that ,, sorry ,,, PERFECT ,, relax, you will get right , your future looks good ,,, keep a smile on ,,, relax
2007-08-31 21:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. i dont think there is a solution to that..it's up to u if u wanna change that...
2007-08-31 21:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by mimi m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋