when friends talk about going over to peoples houses over the weekend, or asks someone to go over to thier house, right in front of you and leave you out! doesnt it make u feel bad? isnt it just plain rude? i have had sooo many friends do tht to me , its not even funny, i want to smack them so hard.
2007-08-31 12:36:32 · 24 answers · asked by Jennifer 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it is very rude
2007-08-31 12:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nora G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just trying to get a rise out of you or make you jealous. Try not to let it show that you're offended and find some friends that will ACTUALLY invite you to hang out. It's no fun being a 3rd wheel. But then again, some friends don't even notice that they're doing that. If so, then invite yourself into the event, politely.
2007-08-31 19:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is very rude, and I think they deliberately are trying to let you know that you're not good enough to be included. Instead of being hurt, be glad that they have let their masks slip-you now know what kind of mean, nasty, snobby people they are. They're the kind of people who smile at your face, but when you leave the room, they talk about and make fun of you. You're really not missing much with people like these. There are other people being treated like you are-if you know who they are, how about asking them to hang out a little bit and get to know them? they might turn out to be just the kind of friend you like.
2007-08-31 19:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's beyond rude. You're justified in feeling bad, no doubt about it. I mean no disrespect here, really I don't-- but maybe you should get some new friends. These ones don't sound like they deserve you.
2007-08-31 19:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jelyol 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's rude. What kind of friends do you have? I would be checking into finding some new ones.
2007-08-31 19:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's rude. It makes me feel really uncomfortable "Mom can Kristen sleep over tonight?" HELLO, am I not sitting right here?
2007-08-31 19:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, but half of the time I don't really care, I'm usually busy or staying at someone else's house.
2007-08-31 19:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mako 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think it's rude and very disrespectful. They shouldn't do that. That has happened to me several times before and it completely sucks....i feel like **** when they do that. Not fair!
2007-08-31 19:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Flaca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rude
2007-08-31 20:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...yeah that's pretty rude, I don't think anyone's ever done that to me...not real friends anyway. And if they had, I would've been downright pissed off.
2007-08-31 19:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Cocó 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its pretty rude, i never ask anyone to come to my house, when someone else is in front of me,
kids don't know what manners are, they think everything is cool
2007-08-31 19:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋