I'm her client and we basically communicate through emails and phone calls everyday. I'm wondering if this is normal in business world if:
1. she asked how old I am
2. she asked if I have pictures that I can show her coz she's wondering how I look like
3. she asked me to go to east coast to visit her (I'm from west coast)
4 she called me "babe" once in email
Are these normal? I try not to be judgement coz I really appreicate her work, but I wanna see what do you guys think?
2007-08-31 11:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds a little strange and unprofessional, but it all matters on your comfort level.
If you feel her actions are purely innocent and friend based then you have nothing to worry about, otherwise you should try to steer clear of those types of conversations or drop hints that your not interested in her that way and maybe even tell her it makes you uncomfortable.
2007-08-31 11:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by I Should Be Working 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends... if you both are about the same age maybe she feels clicked with you as a friend. I assume you both youngsters then that's normal. But I can't denied she appears to be wanted get closer to you than just business relationship. I'm not sure which kind, though. Well good thing is you guys are so far away so even if she really has the thing for you, you can be so easy to avoid her. If you are not interested, then just pretend that you didn't sense anything from her and just work work work.
2007-08-31 18:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by CK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i work with a lot of people over the phone and emails, and have pretty close relationships with them, yet i have no idea what they look like...She may be like me and just wants to put a face to the voice..just curiosity. Or....the alternative, shes a total lezzer and wants to do dirty things to you.
I wouldnt look too far into it, I'm sure its harmless.
2007-08-31 18:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Agnostic Rockett 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like business to me. Monkey business more like it. And it also depends on whether she wants to moon over your photo or throw darts at it, but it would make me uncomfortable.
2007-08-31 18:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Frosty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm just suggesting but this does not sound safe she might kidnap u or something
2007-08-31 18:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋