GIRLS ONLY- its a our thing...?

Question

I m 15 and ive tried masturbating a few times... i dont see whats so great about it. I havnt talked to my parents, sister, or friends about it, or if they do.
what i want to know is 1. Do many girls masturbate
2. should i do it often
and 3. is it ok that i dont enjoy it?

by the way... i could be doin it wrong or backwards! lol!

Answer 1

honey.. it is completely natural to do but i cant even give you a number of how many girls do it... I actually dont but i know someof my friends do so its really just a personal preference

if you watch sex and the city they totally take away in shame of doing it on there lol

but anyways it is perfectly okaythat you dont enjoy it.. you are young.. have you ever experienced sexual contact with a boy or are you just trying it on yourself first? you might not even understand what your body likes at this point or you may just feel uncomfortable doing it that it doesnt feel good..no worries there! when i was little my first kiss was hhorrible and i was like.. oh god.. im notgonna tell anyone i didnt like it.. turned out neither of us knew what we were doing so it wasnt my fault or his.. point is ur young and ur body and hormones are growing so its okay to want to experiment with yourself.. just hold yourself in high esteem when it comes to being with other people. this means protect yourself and your reputation and make things special not purely sexual

and it doesnt really matter how often you do it. if you dont like it then dont do it at all. If you want to continue doing so just do it when you are in private and if you feel the moment is right

Answer 2

1. Almost every girl masturbates, whether or not she denies it. Lots of people just don't like to talk about it, which is fine. But there are girls who don't do it, either because they just don't want to, don't get pleasure out of it, or think it's wrong [which it isn't, btw.]

2. You have to figure out how often you want to do it. There are some girls/women who do it every day and some who do it once a month, or even once a year. It depends on your sexual drive and your urge to have to have an orgasm.

3. It's perfectly okay if you don't enjoy it. It happens. I know a girl who doesn't get any pleasure from doing it herself, but when a guy does it, she loves it. It may just be that you have a low sex drive.

If you want to do it, but don't enjoy it, try different things [you can order things online or even buy them in some shops that are not 18+, for instance a Spencers.. they sell vibrators. Hah.] And if you find it's still not for you, then it's okay.

Answer 3

1. Most girls masturbate (although many won't admit it)
2. Do it however often you want. Some do it every day and others do it once a month.
3. It's fine if you don't enjoy it, however if you don't like, why bother doing it at all.

Answer 4

Masturbation can be good for you and your health, it has been proven, not to mention most girls who masturbate, don't have such an urge to have sex young. If you don't like it your probally doing it wrong, most girls around 85% in the United State masturbate, and some are lying saying they don't. It's completely fine if you don't enjoy it, many people put vibrations on their clit or mess with it. Learn how and if you wish not to then don't do it it's completely fine.

Answer 5

1.i do, but I'm only one person. i don't think a lot of women masturbate. even fewer admit to it if they do, its like they are embarrassed to feel fulfilled.
2.as often as you want, try not to let it disturb everyday activity though ( friends and family are more important)
3. of coarse its okay that you don't enjoy it. there's nothing in this world everyone enjoys. if you don't care for it that's what make you, you and me, me. if it bothers you your opinion on it may change with age. when you become sexually active and later may feel deprived masturbating may be your new best friend. trust yourself and remember that you don't have to do something just cause everyone else does.

Answer 6

Hi!!
Its absolutlely fine to be doing this, me and my friends talk about it all the time and all of them do it aswell, lots of girls dont like to talk about it because they think its dirty or wrong but its not! lol
But if you dont want to do it thats fine, everyones there own person and likes different things so dont worry about that.
I dont think the amount of times you do it matters, if you enjoy it they go for it! Sometimes girls do it everyday and others just once in a while.
On the subject of you not enjoying it you could be right with you not doing it right..some girls like to put there finger in and others just like to rub but you can explore that area to find out what you do like and what you dont.
Hope that helped :)

Answer 7

A lot of girls do masturbate, and like it. And some do it once, and do not like it, or feel awkwards afterwards. If you dislike it don't do it. If you do it again, then good for you. It is normal to dislike it. If you do it more often It makes you want more, with some people. It's your choice though, and do not be imbarrassed to mention it to your mom. [[SHE WAS YOUR AGE ONCE!]] I hope this helped!
*Rebecca*

Answer 8

Yeah, it's fine to do this. Girls who masturbate during their teenage years and find out how their body works are more likely to have successful sex lives when they're older.

It takes practise in order to find out how to get an orgasm and it's best to practise on yourself!

It won't do you any harm. I did it all the time at your age and I've never had any problems with reaching orgasm with a man.

You can do it every day if you like. You can't harm your body.

Answer 9

lol. backwards. 1.Yes. i happen to know girls who do it. 2. if you want to do it then go head and do it. 3. If you dont enjoy it then thats fine. dont do something if you dont like it.

Answer 10

I do it every day and yes every woman does it and no it's not ok that you dont enjoy it, your doing it wrong, try some websites for ideas girl and start getting it on.