i'am a bi-racial male i'm black and white and i'd like to know why only black women are intested in me

Question

i lived in the city for a while and all different colored women liked me black, white, spanish, native american ect... but i moved out to the country and they treat me different just becuase i'am black and white non of the girls in school even look at me it not like i'm ugly because i'm anything but that but i just dont know it really sucks though and i really like aNY HELP on the topic and plzzz no comments like: IT SHOULDN'T MATTER WHAT RACE YOU ARE OR YOUR SKIN COLOR well i'am sry but in high school those rules dont apply so plz anyone who has any info about my question plz help me out thx:)

Answer 1

You are posting in the wrong topic...

Answer 2

I'm glad you are honest with yourself and down to earth about this. I'm a white male and to be honest I haven't really had this problem with other races but with people of my own. Girls/guys whoever won't talk to you or aren't interested in you because they probably don't have many black people in their community. So they view you as being different. I'm sure you know what a stereotype is. But the way certain things or actions are portraid in music or on T.V. can make people also turn away. I'm not saying people are scared of you but I do think that the people in your town classify you as being just like what they have seen or heard about. The only thing you can do is try to blend in with the community. Do what the other people do... That's the only way you can make friends. Show interest in the different types of things that your town offers and find out what most of the people do for fun etc. It might take some time but people will start getting to know you and understand you...that is when people will accept you.

Answer 3

Problem is some rural areas just won't accept the idea that someone is biracial. If it's redneck country, you're either white, or you're not. And yes, it shouldn't matter about the skin color, but so what? It still does, in a lot of places. Most of the people who post here are gay, and face similar discrimination especially in rural areas. Sucks.

Unfortunately, unless or until you move, you'll have this problem - probably. Unless you were to move in with relatives who live in a larger city and I don't know if that's an alternative or not.

Answer 4

i'm in the suburbs and for a while some of the black kids were kind of an exotic treat, with the flavor, hip hop urban cool, ganster chic. 1. are you gansta chic, either (a) you're not chic enough ie i'm sorry to say maybe they want you to act blacker or (b) maybe you're too (pardon the expression) black, maybe todays climate in the country side the villagers are still nervous. You know what i liked in the game san andreas was CJ's c'overall uniform he got from his girlfriend in the rural area. Some overalls with ripped flannel shirt on a big black dude looked cool. maybe a trucker cap. sorry if that's weird.

that's 1 that's pretty much all i have but 2. maybe they don't like black people....... oh and 2 there was blow back recently from gansta rap, some people are like it's not cool to be all violent gansta chic.... although anything that might kill you will always be cool it's that people are on edge and being cautious.

Answer 5

That's a strange question for you to be asking like you don't know that a person who is half black isn't a while person.

And isn't it strange that you are ignoring black girls just the way white girls are ignoring you. Think about it and you will understand.

And you say it shouldn't matter what race you are or what skin color you have. True, in a perfect world we would all be the same hue and talk the same language and think the same but how boring!

White girls like white men like to associate with people with similar backgrounds tastes and interests just the way black people do.

Answer 6

probably because in the country there are very few black people... i know at my school we have about 20 black people out of 1300. Since we're not really used to being around them some people are worried they'll say the wrong thing or something.. i think this is based on the stereotypes..

Answer 7

I'm bi-racial and my parents met in the country....If you are interested in someone don't wait for them to make a move, I mean have you ever thought that maybe they feel the same way you do? maybe they think you only like black females. I don't know the only way to find out is to ask one of them.

Answer 8

I'm so sick of people on this site b**chin about certain races not finding them attractive and why. Get off the dam computer, grow some balls, have some self respect and woman will come to you. Stop trying to focus on wooing one particular race and focus on the individual, one of those black woman you've been ignoring may give you more happiness than you've ever experienced.

Answer 9

LMAO if white girls don't like you leave them the hell alone. Stop trying to get with them. What's wrong with other races? Anyway you are eventually going to get reported for stalking since you won't leave the girls at your school alone. I've reported a stalker before and i'm sure they'd do the same.

Answer 10

Think of it this way. Even Tiger Woods had to go out of the USA to marry a white woman. It will take at least two more generations until old stupidities are forgotten.

Answer 11

well it sounds like you don't like the black women who are asking you out. and the women of other races don't want you. if you are in high school your up a creek w/o a paddle. if you are in college transfer back to the states. differenct societies have different standards of beauty.