please give me ssome tips or suggestions on how to stop
2007-08-31 08:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by johny b 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
get rid of your computer..or have a friend install a filter that you do not know the password to disable it. Do not buy magazines or hang out where they are sold. Get rid of any supply you may have at home. Avoid video stores and the library(computers) for awhile until you have made it 30 days clean.Do not subscribe to movie channels. Don't feed your addiction..starve it out. Attend a sex addict support group if it helps...pray,go to church, read some good books...keep your mind buzy..do mental puzzles,ect.
2007-08-31 09:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by TY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.
Don't let porn conrol you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.
You could consider getting a filter on your computer (something like NetNanny) that will make it harder to access the filthy stuff. Have a friend install it and tell him to NEVER tell you the password! BTW, porn sites are very likely to give you a computer virus.
Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you.
Masturbation without the porn is normal -- don't worry about that. But you need to get rid of your porn addiction as fast as you can.
Good luck!
2007-08-31 21:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends how old you are
When you are a teenager you want to look at porn and everything else alot more.
these are some suggestians to help you stop.
1. diasble your intrent( not very reasnalbe but it will help you stop looking at intrenet porn)
2. just tell your self it will feel alot better if you wait untill 2 days befroe you masterbate again.
hope this helps
2007-08-31 15:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by marshallb2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people seem to be brushing it off on here, if what you're doing is extremely excessive you just might have a sex addiction, which is actually a very serious mental disorder, if this is so you should really consider seeing a mental health professional..
2007-09-04 04:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by sa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that's just in your head! i stop... I hade that same problem...but just put parental control or your inter so you can't look at porn no matter what! and about the masturbating thing its all in your head if you say im nto going to do it, YOUR NOT...
2007-08-31 15:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't stopped since the last 3 or 4 times you
asked ? There's little hope, get a bigger jar so you
can save yourself.
2007-08-31 16:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Turn off the TV and pull up your pants. And get a girlfriend.
2007-08-31 20:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by CHRISTOPHER C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Git rid of ur internet and as for the masturbation, I believe thats normal..........
2007-08-31 16:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by deerhuntergreen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I just WISH I had that much free time and spare energy.
Now heroin, that's addictive. Smoking, that's hard to break.
When you're tired, you'll quit.
Don't make yourself crazy, you're fine.
2007-08-31 16:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are probably just being normal.
2007-08-31 15:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Alabama 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋