If you said YES answer this as well !
1. How did you find out?
2. Did you forgive them and give it another chance?
3. Did you have trust issues because of it?
2007-08-31 07:05:14 · 20 answers · asked by ♕Soulful Dreamer♕ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes.
I went out with him for 2 years and he never told me he was married and had 3 kids.
I had a terrible time finding out the truth because he never introduced me to any one he knew or took me to his house. He told me he was redoing it. I thought maybe it was really run down and he was embarrassed so I didn't push the issue. Then in time I did push the issue because I was beginning to suspect but he said he had a little more work to do on it and that it was a surprise for me. (Ya was it a surprise)
I found out by calling the town hall and speaking to a great girl who by chance had the same thing happen to her. She said, I know he's married! Let me do some digging. She found out his address from his car tax records because all I had to go on was his license plate #. From there I found out his wife's name and their address.
So, I mustered up all the courage I could, took my daughter and her boyfriend with me for moral support and knocked on his door.
His wife answered. I told her everything. If she ever found out about me, I didn't want her to think I knew he was married. I would never do that to someone. She suspected he was cheating on her, too. He beeped me while I was talking to her and I said to her,"why don't YOU call him back." So she did. She told him to get his _ss home. When he drove in he practically fell out of the car. He ranted and raved that I was lying and tresspassing on his property, blah, blah, blah. We all stood there and let him rant and rave for about 5 mins. Then I said to him, "if she (his wife) wants me to leave, I'll leave." So I asked her and she said no. So we both stood there staring at him. You should've seen his face. His whole body jerked. I thought he was going to have a heart attack. At that point my daughter started screaming at him that he cheated on me and his wife with some choice swear words mingled in. And finally we left.
Yes, I had trust issues but not for long because a month later I met my husband. My daughter's boyfriend introduced us so he knew that he wasn't married. I made him bring me to his house on the second date to make sure and that was the end of that. There are some real scumbag creeps out there who want it all. He really thought he was smooth.
2007-08-31 07:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I heard them talking on the phone when the answering machine kicked on and everyone in the house could hear but they did not know it. I did give him another chance but it did not work out. I do not have trust issues now.
2007-08-31 14:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by chatting 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think any girl that has dated a man will answer yes to this question...
I found out b/c I live in a small city and they did it in front of my best friends (idiot)
No, I broke up with them afterwards
And yes... I usually have to build up trust w/ someone for a long time, so once that's broken I usually don't trust that person again
2007-08-31 14:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The girl kept buying me presents, cause she could not stay away from him. I did forgive. I did have trust issues. I was right. He cheated again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Can you say Gone! boys and girls? I knew you could.
2007-08-31 14:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....
1. A reliable source told me of a 3rd party.
2. Yes, but I never took the person back.
3. No....
2007-08-31 14:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes indeedy!!
He kept coming home late, and I finally just asked.
Yes I forgave and gave it another chance
Yes I had trust issues, and he did it again!! No more chances.
2007-08-31 14:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by sue-sue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah I was six months pregnant, he was outside a pizza place where a few of my friends were, they saw him kissing some ugly ugly chick, I broke up with him, and it was the best thing I ever did. No trust issues, he was a loser and I knew it before I even started dating him
2007-08-31 14:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From a fren, and i found it myself too. Sadly, i dont forgive and give another chance, but only limited to 3chances. Trust, slacked of coz!
2007-08-31 14:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by aSyiDaH 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea
found out from their friends, and my friends
no i dont forgive that, you mess up once the relationship is over for good
yea, but i try to let every1 start off with a clean slate
2007-08-31 14:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Out My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
1. Her friends felt bad for me and told me
2.I didn't forgive them, but stupidly we got back together
3.No Because I only got back with her because she was upset that I dumped her and plus after I found out I fooled around with my other ex that she hated. That killed her. ha ha stupid cheater
2007-08-31 15:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by DAMN SILLY BILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋