do they all eventually cheat?

Question

do you think all men even in good relationships would cheat if they got the chance?

Answer 1

No, not all. Many men do have scruples and can be faithful.

Answer 2

It all depends on the individuals phsycology.
If for example they were deprived of love and affection as a child they may have "eyes bigger than their belly" or "writing cheques they cant cash" in the love department. They will find that even the slightest bit of affection is well worth it.
On the other hand they may have had a lot of love and almost smothered, and they need a lot to get a kick as it were.

All i know is that sometimes during a relationship rocky ground is reached. Some people are strong within and hold out, others are easily bored or distracted by other people and decide "im not getting it here, i will go else where".
This obviously isnt going to get them a very stable recommendation!
Sometimes it is good to try and work on a relationship, but then sometimes if two people arent ment to be, then seperation is the best they can do. Sometimes people get on better apart, in these cases people sometimes get confused and re start their relationship on the grounds they were getting on well again, just to realise that issues are still there.

Stating a weaker sex to cheating isnt exactly possible, as both sexes can cheat for various reasons, it would be unfair to class a male cheating because he wanted to sleep around, when truthfully he was feeling under appreciated and un loved, and his partner did nothing, said nothing, or physically and mentaly and emotionally was like dating a nodding dog.
Then again, a woman may cheat because she isnt getting enough, she may cheat because she has a deep down insecurity and playing the field makes her think she is tha bomb.

It is never correct to cheat though, as it is a cowardly method of finding a new partner.
"I want to break off this relationship and be with someone else, but I dont want to be alone" or " ... I'd rather be with someone I dont like and get it than not get it"

If a relationship is classed as good, as in for both partners, then the need for cheating isnt there. If the partner still cheats, then obviously they are feeling as though the other partner is a pair of comfy slippers. "I can allways come back to ......"

It is human nature to want what they do not have, hence the "Grass is always greener on the other side".
When you get there, you would probably wish you never left. But then its too late.....

Sorry I digress...

I belive that All People in Any Relationships will either "think" or "act" on impulses to cheat. Its not down to a single sex.

Answer 3

No, some people truly believe in honor and loyalty.

However though depends on circumstances, would you cheat if the man was Brad Pitt, or if the woman was Jessica Alba.

Chance is not so much the problem as desire. Men pass up on chances to cheat and get laid all the time. With the desire to cheat either it is based upon a lack of sexual fulfilment, boring repetitive sex life, or just horn dog man desires, usually that leads more to cheating than opportunity.

However though some men may be conditioned to cheat by societal expectations or previous unfaithful relationships by them or their partners or possibly even because of their parents unfaithfullness.

Answer 4

I'd never, and I would appreciate if you would stop roping me in with all of the guys who have hurt you in the past! They aren't cheating on you cause they are guys, they are cheating on you cause they are jerks! Women do it too.

By the way, you might want to think about adding a seatbelt to your saddle, you wouldn't want to accidentally fall off your high horse now would you?

Answer 5

I have never cheated in the 49 years of my life and never would. Even when things a really bad between myself and my partner. I make sure one relationship is over before I begin another.

Answer 6

I've known alot of good men who have eventually cheated but I think those men cheat more emotionally which turns to physical. You'll have alot of other men who'll cheat but it just be about sex.

Answer 7

There is a saying that goes "Ur only as faithful as ur options." Now even though i dont fully believe this, I can see some truth in it. If ur constantly bombarded with temptations, then ur more likely to slip, whereas u have less temptations ur less likely to slip. With that said, "Play on Playa!!!" (jus kidding) Remember that everyone is an individual, not exactly the same as the next person. You might want to evaluate the "type" of men (or women) ur attracted to or are willing to date. (jus an opinion).

Answer 8

I think more women are cheating now more than ever.
Women just try to justify it more when we don't bother.

The male has fallen for the apparent rhetoric that women want weak spineless men. When men lower themselves to play those roles they think the woman wants he grows to resent it. As his resentment grows the woman's interest wanes in this weakened man she helped create. She then turns to one not yet ruined and casts aside the man that compromised himself for her for another.
Horrible catch 22 if you ask me.

And don't forget...it is impossible for a man to cheat w/o a hoochie right there cheating with him.

Answer 9

Nope. Not at all. I cheated on a girl once, and it was because I was a closeted gay guy. I haven't done it since nor would I ever. That would be wasting someone else's time.

PS - if you keep thinking that way, dear, you're going to continue to date cheaters.

Answer 10

Nope and don't believe that lie. There are more than just a few good men left.
Keep hope alive, yours will find you. Prov 18:22

Answer 11

Yes i think so jus think if a woman is throwing herself at him you think he is going to say no you have lost your mind...lol. You might have some that wont but most will