When we met he lied about where he lived and then i busted him about a month later. He is in the navy and said he lives on the ship and didn't want to tell me that, so he gave me an address. Then he lied about something he bought and said he threw it away, or he said he left things on the ship and I found them in his bag. He also said he received and read a card I sent him, more than a month ago, and I found it unopened in his bag. I also just went to visit him for 10 days and he had a rental the whole time and said his car was in the shop, but his car keys were in his bag. Now he's calling me from 2 different cell phone numbers and said one phone is to chirp his brother. He lied about his son's mother and told me they were married and then slipped and told me that it was a one time thing and he was married to a different woman. When I tell him things aren't adding up he just gets mad or tells me to call his mom. He also bought and showed me and engagement ring but no proposal.
2007-08-31 06:18:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really feel like he lies, but I'm not sure how to bring it up.
2007-08-31 06:19:13 · update #1
I also found and unopened bottle of horny goat weed in his bag a month ago and then a week ago it was in his bag and only 16 out of 30 pills were left. We were talking about sexual supplements and he said he's never taken any. I don't know what to think.
2007-08-31 06:23:19 · update #2
I wouldnt deal with that,I would leave him.It may get worse
2007-08-31 06:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....please! Are you serious. Either he has someone else or he is just a down right liar. My advice to you is to leave him alone and let him go and do what it is he does. You dont need no one in your life like that. What happens in the future and something bad happens to him, you are not going to believe it because he lies so much. Even if you talk to him about it it's not going to change who he is becuase once a liar, always a liar and since he keep lying about dumb s**t then you need to leave him totally alone and find you a winner. You have only been dating for 4 months............4 m o n t h s??????????????? He's already showing you what type of person he is, well at least he jumped out the bag now rather then 8 years later. Good luck to you!
2007-08-31 06:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds married. The engagement ring maybe the one he gave his wife and he just used it to stunt with you. I think you should leave the guy alone. this woman he calls his mother could be just a willing friend. Military men try to pull the wool over your eyes all the time. He tells his wife he has training out of town to hang out with you. He tells you he lives on the ship to keep you from him and his wife's home. He calls you from different numbers because his wife has him in the dog house about you all's relationship and he wants to continue it without her knowing. He is a sneaky bastard and you need to pull out before it goes too much further and you get your feelings hurt. I wouldn't believe **** he says. No who would lie to you would be his direct supervisor. In the military they don’t honor adultery in the least bit. Forget about the mom ask for his supervisor’s number and question him. If he really has nothing to hide then he will give it to you. I’m a military wife so I would know.
2007-08-31 06:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by PuCcI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say RUN RUN RUN!!! These are all redflags going up telling you he is a LIAR.. dont believe a word of what he is dishing to you.. It will only be your fault down the road when he hurts you , knocks you up and moves on to the next one who believes his lies.. 4 months is not long enough to know someone especially long distance,.. and as far as the ring goes he has probably had it already because previous girls caught on to him and gave it back.. I would not invest anymore time with this guy.. He lied about his babys mother.. Hello.. I would like to send you a wake up call.. Time to end this long distance lie..
2007-08-31 06:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by neicygreeneyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have any trouble bringing it up. He knows he's a big liar. Long distance relationships don't work, especially with a sailor. I know this for sure because I was in the Navy. He'll be with a different woman in every port the ship stops at. Let him go and find someone more secure in your life and theirs.
2007-08-31 06:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch him...if the relationship started with a lie then my advice is that it is not going to be a good one. You can't base a relationship on lies. People say that relationships are based on honesty and if he is unable to tell you the truth about where he lives then it would be a waste of time for you to invest in this relationship
2007-08-31 06:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by skhem82 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard enough and can only work if you are completely honest with each other.
If he is lying to you about little things, chances are he is also lying to you about bigger important things too.
I say get rid of him while you can. You deserve better than that.
2007-08-31 06:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by GoldenButterflyKisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but if I were you: I would not believe a word he says. This relationship sounds like WAY too much trouble for you to drag yourself down with. I know it hurts to end, but I don't honestly see any good coming out of this for you!! There are a lot of less-complicated men out there.
2007-08-31 06:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you think that he lies to much an about thing then you need to dump him because just think of what he hasn't told you or yet have lied about so just end it every one hates a lie an just think you will never be able to trust him from what he has already talked about .
2007-08-31 06:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confrot him thats the only way, what u feeel has to come out in the open or its going to get realyly rough or dump him if you feel like he lies that much it sounds like he has a lot of issues i wish u good luck
2007-08-31 06:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it could be a sickness if he lies TOO Much. try getting to the bottom of it, but I suggest u move on.
2007-08-31 06:22:09 · answer #11 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋