I guess we have a long history together, I think that being a brat when I was younger, I've always excluded her from things, now she is getting married and have mutual friends, even friends I've met in college that knew her, the all got invited and I didn't. I just met her last Christmas at a mutual friends house too. I think this is payback but, I also think that My friends would be wondering why I didn't get invited. And I think she doesn't want me there so she would pull something like, Oh, I DID give you an invitation, maybe it got lost in the mail... and then she would show me her thousand pictures. Also, she didn't go to my brother's funeral and she knew him too. I'm just scared that she might take my friends from me. What do I do
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Have a Happy Friday and take care!
Z
2007-08-31 05:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We weren't really too close after our first two years of high school then we went our separate ways. I don't think we would have ever been into contact if it weren't for our mutual friend.
2007-08-31 06:03:08 · update #1
LOL, I never stabbed her in the back!
2007-08-31 06:04:49 · update #2
Well, I would do the mature thing and if it really bothers you so much, just ask her. Other than that I wouldn't worry too much about it because either
a) she isn't doing it to get you back, you just aren't that close to her and she just wants close friends at her wedding (she is paying for it and is entitled to invite whoever she wishes.
Or B) she is doing it to get you back and you dont need a friend like that anyways.
All in all, a wedding is a huge thing to plan and well, it just doesn't seem like she would have time to stay up at night and think of ways to get back at you...
Just be happy and ask her about it or forget about it...
Oh and about her stealing your friends, if she does then they werent your friends to begin with, get new ones.
2007-08-31 09:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Oli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've a friend I wouldn't invite. He back stabbed me and lied and lost my trust.
Me not inviting him isn't out of spite, it's because I wouldn't want him there, much like anyone other person I wouldn't want there ranging from people I dislike to people I've never met.
If he took it personally, then he should know why I didn't invite him but it's not like I stayed up all night plotting how much this would piss him off. A wedding is about marrying the one you love in front of those you love. I wouldn't invite people that lost that trust to my wedding. Stop being self-absorbed, you don't even hang out with this person. Mutual friendship doesn't mean you have to tag along. This is another side to THEIR lives, stay out of it.
2007-08-31 06:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Corvus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as though you are not friends...so why in the world would she invite you to her wedding? And why in the world would you be in a position to have to look at her thousands of wedding pictures?
If you fear that she will take your friends away from you, then you best spend some time analyzing how good a friend you are to others and what kinds of relationships you have formed in your young life.
2007-08-31 06:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Stay home! You weren't invited!
2007-08-31 08:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go crash her wedding. You could even wear your OWN wedding dress. I saw it on a T.V. show once. Haha. Have fun!
2007-08-31 06:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will you do ?
2007-08-31 06:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋