...I'm sure that I want to spend the rest of your life with you...?
Would you trust him? how can someone within 20 days will know if I'm the right one?
And what's more interesting...he shows signs of love and affection...and he seems pretty interested on me.
What do you think about this...any similar experiences?
2007-08-31 03:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
boys can answer also :)
2007-08-31 03:39:06 · update #1
It was just after 9/11 and I was having a coffee with a stranger from another country. I noticed that she never mentionned 9/11 or anything else negative. I finished my coffee fast and told that when she finished hers we would be going for a walk.
We both knew what that meant. By 12/01 we were married.
All is perfect.
P.S. after reading above----The marriage was not that important. We would have lived together either way. It was just that she had never been married before and I knew that she and her family wanted to share that experience. Having a baby was more or less the same story. She was an only child. In both these cases I received rewards that I had not foreseen. Like I said before, All is perfect. The secret is to not harbor resistance to loving ideas and opportunities.
2007-08-31 07:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by canron4peace 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man
I came from a poor family
when I was a teenager I don't have the idea to court a girl for I am afraid to raise a family.
I just dedicate myself in study.
when I just about to graduate I learned to court a girl and became my first girl friend. Still I am afraid to marry because I was not a graduate
I look for a job hoping to save some money for future the wedding, . . yet . because of health and low saving have reach me to 5 years of her waiting. Until one day I receive a letter that she got married to another guy in their community.
I became a professional after 2 years later, got a good job and found out later that when I court a girl more or less of my age accepted me for less than one week to two months courtship. Still I don't offer a wed for them for the memory of my first love is still in me. When I was 25 I found my ideal girl, similar look with my first girlfriend and quality that I am looking for . . . can not be fooled by any body, industrious, good looking and frank to conversation. We talked for about half hour, seldom see her personally, but I sent her a letter once a week.
She accepted me as her boyfriend after about 1.5 months. . .
then secret is " I offer her right away a marriage" , We married then after 6 months. We have a daugther a nurse graduate and son a software engineering graduate.
lesson:
Boys if not prepared usually don't offer a wedding , they are after sex
If they are prepared, its a rush, and in short time offer a weeding.
2007-08-31 04:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by CPUcate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know some one who fell in love when they saw a person come off a plane. They got married and are very happy after 20 years together. It is possible but it is just a place to start you still need to get to know each other and spend time together.
2007-08-31 03:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by happyjumpyfrog 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, it can happen. I meet my husband when I was 19 in college, I saw him across the room and said to myself. That is the man I will marry.
We started dating, and my father came to me just two weeks after, and said to me, you are in love, you will marry this man.
My husband, boyfriend then, told me that he would marry me and we would be married forever in this life on earth.
We have been married for a few decades now.....and I love him as I did then, and have grown to understand how love plants is roots in our lives...for not just us, but all. Out of 9 kids in all our families, we are the only ones that have remained married and in love to ONE spouse.
It can happen....but I would advise, take it slow, time has a way of passing very quickly, enjoy the feelings and time together to get to know one another.
2007-08-31 03:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well...
it was about a month after we were dating that my gf told me that she was in love with me.
i was taken aback, and, being an honest person i did not, at that time, tell her i loved her....i just kind of quietly looked like an idiot
we've now been together 2 years and our daughter will be 1 yr old on 11/4....we BOTH love each other very much now :)
2007-08-31 03:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Free Radical 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel in love (or was aware of it) in 2 weeks. I am still with him after nearly 9 years.
Do give it some time though to see how it works out.
2007-08-31 04:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had guys tell me they fell in love with me the first day they met me, knew I was the one for them, etc. It's mind boggling because it takes me awhile to develop strong feelings for a guy... it depends on who it is that's claiming these feelings so soon, either I'll run for the border or welcome his affections letting him know they are not reciprocated at the moment but maybe in time, maybe.
2007-08-31 03:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Monique 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder about it, yes. But it if it true than time will tell. If you are unsure about it then don't jump into any major changes such as marrige. If it is true he will be accepting of you wanting to wait and spend more time getting to know more about each other.
2007-08-31 11:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call it infatuation, and take it very slowly with him. People who jump into things tend to be inconsistent and unreliable. Not to say that this is the case, just dont be in a huge rush.
2007-08-31 03:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by h_a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew by date 3 that I would marry my DH. Sometimes you just KNOW. My grandparents knew each other 3 days, got married and stay married for 40 years - then he died. It DOES happen. =)
2007-08-31 03:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋