I was 19 when I got married but then was 20 when I got divorced. We tried to work it out but I couldn't I could see that things weren't gonna change. He started dating my roommate that he had just met. Now they have a child and are getting married in a month. Am I weird for being jealous?
2007-08-31 03:12:02 · 17 answers · asked by lilperchal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hell no! wtf I hope you arnt talking to either one of them why did she do that? she is stupid! you are better off good luck and you will find someone better than that bucket of crap called a man.
2007-08-31 03:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no. You feel hurt that your girlfriend (roommate) is marrying your ex husband. Be glad they are marrying for the sake of the child, but cross her off your list as a friend.
2007-08-31 03:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. You had an image of what your life was supposed to be like. Now he is living it. Maybe you didn't want it with him, but seeing him have it still would sting a little.
But in the long run, you are going to be very happy with your decision. Enjoy this stage in your life. You're young. Having a baby and a husband can wait!
2007-08-31 03:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its very common for people to not want the ex to be with anyone, even though they themselves don't want them either.
Part of it may be jealousy of the life they appear to have and thinking that happiness could of been yours. Any way its not weird.
2007-08-31 03:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look at the past how things Really were. It seems you are looking back at the good times and not remembering why you split up in the first place.
2007-08-31 03:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Paul M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you jealous? If it didn't work out with you, it ain't like your missing out.
I would say your weird
2007-08-31 03:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Team 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it's natural to be a little jealous in that situation. Just don't let the jealousy interfere with your life.
2007-08-31 03:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Randi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
nothing wrong with you.
learnt from experience and move on.
why bother on a man who dun even bother to think too much? I find him weird.
2007-08-31 04:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by lost man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not jealous as much as a why didn't it happen that way for me. It sounds more like he may have changed, thanks to you and now you're wondering why couldn't it have been you.
2007-08-31 03:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why be jealous of something you didn't want anyways.
2007-08-31 03:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all, you were married AND he's now getting married to one of your roomates! I would have gone mental!
2007-08-31 03:16:19 · answer #11 · answered by beth 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋