he loves me a lot and express his desire to marry me i m happy but he is 26 and i am 19 i love him but sometimes i feel like he needs me only physically i like his nature everything i donno why whenever i think abt his wife and child ,it upset me coz i think he may be love his wife morethan me and use me only for fulfilling his physically desires i am in confusion whether i trust on him or not
2007-08-31 02:49:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he would do this to his wife and child, how do you think he'll treat you now?
You're only 19. Learn from this lesson. Realize that you can find your own man.
If you marry this man, you'll likely be going through what his wife is dealing with, in a few years.
He's a loser. If he wasn't he wouldn't have screwed around on his wife and child.
2007-08-31 02:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 99% sure that your married boyfriend is not going to leave his wife and child for you. if he does he'll be right back to his wife because she's the only one who has the power to hang him legally. Majority of the time in a marrige its a lot easier to take breaks and work things out later.
You are more than likely just a pasttime and a deversion,"something and someone different to do while he's outside the house or having problems at home".When the problems with his wife and hiself go away, you will too....
2007-08-31 03:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating a man that is married and has a child, this is not the right thing to do. Trust me, he has not intentions on ever leaving his wife and he is only using you for physical pleasure. If he did love you as he says he does, he would be with you, not her. He comes home to her, eats his meals with her, gives her his money, pays her bills, sleeps with her, and makes love to her, he only has sex with you. I am sorry to sound so cruel but I am trying to open up your eyes to the truth. Get out of this relationship and find a man of your own. Best of luck to you!
2007-08-31 02:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So hes married with a child... that makes you the other woman. OF COURSE HE IS USING YOU FOR SEX. Why would it upset, you knew what you were getting into.
2007-08-31 02:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever feel you are being used then you probably are. You are young and being taken advantage of. End the relationship. Have a good cry. Get angry. Get over him. Make better choices next time.
2007-08-31 03:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never marry him if he's married. It would be your responsibility to break their marriage, their family, to leave his child without father. A child needs both his parents so much. think about it and turn your look to free guys, don't be selfish.
2007-08-31 02:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ekaterina E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very convenient to have an affair with someone under 21. You really can't go any where in public.
If someone is really in love they are willing to destroy and rebuild their life that very second. Since this man is still with his wife I say he is using you.
2007-08-31 03:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married and has a child what the heck are you doing???Homewrecker thats what im saying.Find someone single then you would know if he loves you.Of course he loves his wife more HELLO
2007-08-31 02:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should he marry you when you giving all the goods free. Duh, why wouldn't he love his "WIFE, and CHILD" more than you! Please leave this MARRIED man alone. Lets just say he really did love you, wait on him until he is completely through with his family(he will tell you anything he thinks you want to hear, if he know he will get some).
2007-08-31 03:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Team 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allow him to have the best of both worlds. In the highly unlikely event that he does divorce and marry you, it won't be long before he cheats again.
At your age there are many single guys available. Grab one!
2007-08-31 03:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by picador 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋