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2007-08-31 02:35:01 · 34 answers · asked by ilove_drew2006 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

34 answers

#1 calm down a little
]#2 tell mom and dad you need to talk
#3 tell them
#4 dont kill the child it did nothing wrong
#5 are you ready to get married
#6 adoption adoption the kid needs a mom and a dad

2007-08-31 03:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7 · 1 0

Becoming pregnant at your age is tough. I'm almost 35 now and 3 mos pregnant. The first thing you should do is tell a relative. Someone you trust, someone who is there for you and that you can count on to help you. Telling your parents is the obvious option but if they're not around, tell another relative who is around. They can help you make an informed decision but remember you're the only one who can make the FINAL decision. You're going to get a lot of conflicting advice on (and sometimes smart a** answers on here about) what to do and many are going to want to make the decision for you. It is completely UP TO YOU. NO ONE ELSE. Also, tell the father of the child. Hopefully he will want to be part of the decision making process. If he's already gone, forget him for now. If you decide to keep the child, you will be able to get financial support from him later. Right now, worry about you and your baby and the best decision for you both. Now is a good time to write down what your future plans were before the pregnancy came about. What did you want to do with your life? Remember that anything you wanted to do is now going to be twice as challenging if you decide to keep the child. Talking to a counselor is a good idea too. They can help you in making an informed well educated decision without your feeling judged by the final decision you do make.
If you're over a certain time limit in your pregnancy termination is no longer an option I do not believe. There is a cut off limit to that. Talk to someone soon to help you!

2007-08-31 03:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 1 0

I hate you. What are you even doing having sex? You're only 16?!? I can forgive the spelling, as you're understandably distressed, but seriously, people like me who want a baby so desperately and have a stable loving household and family to bring it up in, and who are ready to take on the responsibility, and you uncross your legs for one second!!! >:(

At least do the right thing now, and tell your parents and the father. Do what ever you can to make sure this baby has everything it could ever want. Whether that means you and your family raise it together, or if you have to give it up for adoption. Only use abortion as an absolute last resort, I know it's your body and your choice, but what about that little baby growing inside of you? All it will ever want is for it's mother to love it completely. Can you do that?

You're going to be growing up pretty fast soon.

2007-08-31 02:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by A derka der 7 · 0 1

If you mean "pregnant" you should talk to your parents asap. It will be hard, but they should know what you are going through and you will feel better not having to hide it from them. But don't panic. It's not the end of the world for you. People always say that a baby ruins the life of a teenager but it doesn't have to be that way. You can always continue with school for your pregnancy, then give the baby up for adoption, and keep going to school. But even if you decide with your family that you want to keep the baby, there are still ways to finish your high school education. You will just have to grow up a little faster than your friends. But children are worth any sacrifices we have to make for them. Good luck.

2007-08-31 02:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 1 0

I am alos 16 and i am 7 weeks pregnant i told my mom right off the bat when i found out the father of my baby is going to stick around he wanted the baby :) Tell your mother now because if u dont u will wish u would of because i have a misscarge 4 months ago and i was 4 months pregnant and i had a lot of stuff to fill out and bunches of doctor opiontments to go to ! go ahead and tel ur mother !

2007-08-31 04:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

K well don't pa nick The first thing is have you told your parents if not you need to the earl yer the better so they get use to the idea. Most of my friends had baby's in there teens and they are all great mothers, Don't let anyone force you in to doing anything you don't want to. I understand that your prob scared but these things happen you just have to take a step back now and say I'm i ready to be a mother i no that is scary but tell your family so you have support i wish you the best of luck xxx

2007-08-31 02:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by K k 3 · 1 1

I think you should keep it. This isn't exactly the right place to get the answer, but you will def. get some answers. Reflect on how you ended up in the position you are in and try to get an education if you can. Put education, your baby and yourself first and think of those 3 things when making any other decisions. You will get a long way.

2007-08-31 02:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by rangerbaldwin 4 · 1 0

Is this the foundation you want that child's life to be built on? Do you really see yourself having a long-term relationship/marriage with the father? If not, I'd think seriously about giving it up for adoption. You're too young to have your youth end. Think about having kids when you're 25 or 30. Enjoy life for little while.

2007-08-31 02:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Tell your mom, or dad, or another adult that you love and trust. You can not do this alone. You do not have to do this alone. The fact is that you are 16, had unprotected sex, and got pregnant. You have tough choices to make in the next few months, please ask someone, other than the father, for help. If you were old enough to have sex, you are old enough to realize that you need to ask for help with this situation. You are already a mother, you have a life growing inside you. it is up to you to make choices reguarding that life and yours. good luck to you and your baby

2007-08-31 02:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

First of all what ever you do PLEASE STAY IN SCHOOL. If you want the baby keep it, if you don't want the baby........that is up to you. But please educate yourself for the child. I know it will be hard for you if you do decide to keep the child and continue education but it will all be worth it in the end. Tell your parents, don't snap at them if the say something you don't want to hear they are still your parents. Talk to the father if her denies **** him........It is really all on you and what you want to do........no body's perfect. If anyone wants to help you in your situation, take the help don't act as if you are too good to be helped because we all need a little help at one point or another. Take Care and may God Bless.

2007-08-31 02:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sperlisha A 1 · 1 0

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