i have been TTC for 2 months .. i know its too early but i am getting a little stressed out and frustrated and depressed of not having conceived...i somehow think tht i shud have started earlier.. am 28... please i need some positive talk.. can anyone help!!
2007-08-31 02:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by cute379 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You and I spoke yesterday as well. 28 in all reality is a perfect age!
You have to try and relax...
I took a test today and it came back negative. I am upset and I felt so pregnant. I had all the signs!!
I just have to remember to know that there is always next month! Try to have fun with it. Don't make sex a job, that doesn't help either party.
Stress plays a big part in TTC.
I know how hard it is... I am 28, perfect husband (haha well, maybe not perfect ;) awesome house, awesome jobs, two great dogs! I thought it was going to happen the first time without a condom but I see now it doesn't work like that.
My friend is 27 and she has been trying with her husband for 2 years... she starts her invitro in about 4 or 5 days because they can not conceive with out help. I think of her when I get depressed because of all the hard times she has had.
You have to stay positive and it will work!! Just keep smiling like I told you yesterday. I know all you want to do is scream because I feel your pain. But we can't!!
2007-08-31 02:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Neen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand exactly how you feel. I'm 25 and although this is the 2nd month ttc, I'm already stressing out. Last month was an awkward month for me where I my period lasted 3 weeks! I've never had that happen to me before but I was travelling and stressing so that might have been the case. So technically last month shouldn't even count. Due to last month's incident, I went to my obgyn and she tested me for everything and according to her, I'm normal. I'm in my two week wait right now (10 days past ovulation) and just already stressing that this might not be the month because I haven't vomitted yet, no implantation bleeding/spotting. I know not all women have spotting but it just makes me nervous!
We had intercourse few days before ovulation, the day of getting positive on the digital opk, used preseed, taking 400mg folic acid......so if I don't get pregnant this month, I'll be even more frustrated! :(
Have you been using opk? Have you been to the doc to get checked? Maybe you're not conceiving near ovulation time?
2007-08-31 09:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by MommyToBe! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm on my 6th month of ttc baby #2.....i'm also 28. For years I begged my husband to have another baby & he just wasn't ready. So now that he's ready, I haven't gotten pregnant. We even use a fertility monitor, so I know exactly when I ovulate. I'm currently in my tww....and boy does it SUCK! Reading yahoo answers will make you get obsessed with ttc. Be careful about reading too much into it. My Dr. told me to stop reading so much & to relax :) He also told me that the average person takes 4-6 months to conceive. Good luck & baby dust to ya! RELAX!
2007-08-31 09:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mom again 9/13/08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've only been ttc for 2 months as well. The first month, I was crushed, sure there was something wrong w/ me, and that God just hated me. It was bad.
I think I'm a little better this month, so I'm hoping it gets a little better w/ time. All I can say is, I'm in the same boat w/ you.
I'm going to try to find a hobby to occupy my time so I can focus on something other than THIS all the freakin time! I think that makes it worse.
2007-08-31 10:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months means you have only had a viable ovum for a grand total of about 48 hours. HOURS. 48 HOURS where you can get pregnant. Thats nothing.
Its you're frustraited already, and stressed out about it already you're setting yourself up for failure and making it much MUCH harder to get pregnant.
Have sex, enjoy your husband, and go clean the house like every other day of your life. You will be pregnant, dont stress it. You wouldnt freak the hell out about hoping you can poop some day soon. You should nt freak out about your body's other natural functions.
I do know what its like, ive been there myself. Cried over every period for months. The best advice I ever got was to stop trying to get pregnant and just live my life. The second I did that I got pregnant.
2007-08-31 09:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry it can take people up to a year before it happens, try ovulation kits and watching your cervical mucas, it's only been two months. Dont get frustrated as this will not help, try enjoying the sex and dont look at it as baby making, have fun and RELAX it will happen when it is supposed to - just think people have been trying for two years and suddenly they get the shock of a postivie test
2007-08-31 09:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by smitters06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋