my wife very shy person sometime she does as i say but some time she just............................ and when i start i feel that i am hurting her
2007-08-31 01:55:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shut up and get a life
2007-08-31 01:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
You need to spend a lot of time in getting her 'ready' for sex... just because you want it, doesnt mean she does.... so you have to make her 'want it!'
This is where you put in the time and effort to get the reward and she will surely be grateful that you are "trying so hard" to satisfy her and are thinking and worrying that she will enjoy the sex as much as you will!
You say she is shy...... when she is just a little bit turned on she will be a lot less shy and the more turned on she is, the bolder she will be...... at this point if you havent already done what she wants you to do then this is the time to ask or suggest to her.........
If you dont get it at this point, then a) you never will and b) neither will she......................................!
2007-08-31 09:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by nubbiemay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is your wife?
Talk Talk Talk, Read the Greatest Book on Sex "The Kama Sutra" Not the pictorial version.
Translation By Sir. Richard F. Burton.
Good Luck.
2007-08-31 09:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas B 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well , i think you should discuss talk with your wife about sex things .. like simple ask basic questionable her to get know how she feel about it or what she think of it ..also she might shy and don't know much about sex stuff so as you could talk her about it .. i might give you tip try , make plan one night as you have make special dinner ,drink wine relax and talking relax then you may ask her if she don't mind if you could ask a questions as just tell her you want to know or wonder ..be patience an gentle easy on her ..when she dose talk you about it ... she will start wonder about it and might will ask you try something start with basic sexual touching , then make next step level where she can feel to like . but all i can said good luck with your wife as talk her about it ..
2007-08-31 09:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky M. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of you men just blow my mind!!
she does what you say? Come on it's 2007!! Can't she do and think on her own?
Anyhow, back to you blowing my mind............what do you think your mouth and tounge are used for? Talking, ASKING, eating, and love making.
ASK her if she's ready. BETTER YET how about trying foreplay to make sure she's ready!
You probably are hurting her in more ways than one!!
2007-08-31 09:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the joke about how you paralyze a woman from the neck down?; marry her.
2007-08-31 09:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to ask her honestly if it's what she wants!
She shouldn't be shy around her husband!
If she is she shouldn't have said yes!
2007-08-31 08:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will see the change in her body temperature, letting you know she is ready.
2007-08-31 09:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a boy but Mungo knows her stuff; listen to her.
2007-08-31 09:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are concerned and ask her if it (sex) is what she wants. Make her feel comfortable and sure you are aware of her feelings.
Women love men who share feelings!!!
2007-08-31 08:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by m.n.m 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
dont force her maybe shell tell you whaen shes ready
2007-08-31 08:59:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋