2007-08-30 23:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by Arvind P 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
why should u be jealous?
people always think about the things they don't have and worry about that......
people complaints to god for not giving them a talent which their neighbours or friends are having.
this is wrong.there will be some talents inside u too...
u have to find it ,develop that,and always thank god for giving u that talent.u may not know the value of your talent but those people who do not have that talent knows it's value very well...
not only in the case of talents,for everything that u do not have don't be jealous of that.it may be something that u can achive through hardwork and experience.so,work hard u will get everything and as a result your short temper too will definitely vanish.
see,instead of being jealous of a person ucan be proud ofthat person if he/she is a friend of you.....try to give support to people then they will really appreciate u then there will be no question of jealousy.
people who r not jealous still they may have short temper.it's quite natural.but u'r short temper should last only 4 a short duration.if u say sorry to people afterwards they will forgive u..
but u should be ready to do that,ok?
when u get angry with someone just go away from there..
relax.
pray to god everyday he will help u...
always be an appreciating as well as supportive person.
then u will see the wonderful change in u..
it's easy for u as you have realised u'r drawbacks.
i really appreciate u for that....
try to be more patient and kind.attitude is everything.....just think that i'm not jealous of anything....god has given me food,shelter,eyes,ears,parents,friends everything ....i'm really blessd by him...why should such a person be jealous of anything?
all the best....
2007-08-31 00:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by bhavya_too cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. What was the latest jealousy thought you encountered? Analize it. Is it about the material things others enjoy? Their status? Their money?
What would like to be go on envying them for their success or be one of them?
Best thing is to become one of them.
So start working towards it. Let jealousy be the fuel for your drive forward.
Once you entertain your positive thoughts and achieve things in life there will be no room for any such ill thoughts.
Easrier said than done!
But there is no other way.
If you get over your jealousy the short temper will also vanish.
All the best.
2007-08-31 06:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hudson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to change a habit you must make a serious decision to do whatever it takes to make it happen and refuse to give up when it gets hard - and I promise you it WILL get hard. Since you have a genuine desire to change you must hold firmly to your unshakable determination coupled with diligence but you "can" do it. You also need a good support system so please ask your family members and trusted friends for their help as you work through this issue.
I really admire you for wanting to gain self-control in this area and I wish you great success!!!!!
2007-08-31 06:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same with me buddy! but whenever i feel jealous of someone, i just bring my feelings out in pen. i write down whatever i feel on a piece of paper and then keep the paper with me. then i read it after a few days and i feel whatever i was feeling that time was so foolish. then i throw away the paper and the whole thing passes away. as far as short-temperament is concerned, just be calm. do not over react. no matter what happens you have to think cool and let it go away. now i am coming out of those habits. think free.
2007-08-31 06:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong u are a normal persons. If u go to doctor or psychetrist u will become poor and be branded stupid also.
it is jealousy which is driving force toward achievement and successfull and excell
2007-09-03 15:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by tillan2k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jea;lousy comes from personal ego and due to insecure feeling. make good friends and feel free and treat yourself on par with them psychologically it appears when one degrades himself in any angle he will get jealous./ after it is said and we can see with experience that on every grain it will be written who will eat it. ok are you able to understand dont be jealous the Almighty or IOmnipotent has created innumerable fruits eatables articles humanbeings and all for us when he is not having jealuous why should we have try to habituate to give charity of grains to ants daily and some eatables to hungry people see their face and enjoy., learn meditation and get relief. take cold bath with water as many times as you can and keep silence when u are angry or keep a smiling face child photo in ur pocket and see it when get angry you will become soft soon. ok best of luck
2007-08-31 06:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by sambamurthy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reading list below can act as a source for you. Most of the titles can be found in your local library. If they don't have them they can borrow them from another library.
Anger Management
http://www.amazon.com/Anger-Management/lm/R3IM8KIKMPVT03/ref=cm_lm_byauthor_title_full/002-3352010-2594421
2007-08-31 07:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ARE SHORT TEMPER .SO I THINK U HAVE LOOOT MANY QUESTIONS IN UR MIND EVERYTIE SO 1ST TRY TO SOLVE $ FIND SOLUTION 4 EVERYTHING
2007-09-03 01:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by bhuvaneswari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do meditation
2007-08-31 11:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋