i started skool about a week ago well ive made no new friends and when i do try the persons a perv or they cant relate to me i have found nobody and i do try but everything fails. the only place i feel like i can express myself is the internet. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
please dont leave an answer like be more soacial cuz ive tried that
2007-08-30 16:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
be your own best friend, when you are comfortable with yourself, and like who you are, others are drawn to you.
2007-08-30 16:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that helped me out the most in college was that I failed a design class so I had to join ranks with the previous year students. All my other classes were with my current year friends but you do what you do. You join what you like. You do things that you like to do. From that you gain confidence and people see you. If people see that you are a hard working student, you are friendly, and have a nice personality, you will gain friends.
Trust me... if you like the internet, there are so many people who respect internet dorks. I'm a computer graphic dork especially with 3ds max but when I showed people how good i was by helping them by showing how knowledgeable I was while being friendly, you would not realize how grateful they were to understand something they did not like and they help me out as well. You just got to be confident in what you do. Ofcourse you do need to know when you are being used but for people who are kind in general, they will like you in return.
2007-08-30 23:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Harry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? high school? junior high? college? trust me, it's very hard for a lot of us to find people you can realte to and vise versa. when i came to college i joined a sorority even though i'm not a sorority type of girl. i ended up meeting a lot of people and even though a lot of them didn't get me some of them did and those are my friends today.
the easiest way to meet people you can relate to is to join a club you are interested in were you will meet people who share that interst. do you like art? join the painting club....movies? the film club. ect...
there are tons of clubs and organizations everywhere that specialze in something you must be interested it. volenteer at an animal shelter if you like animals or a hospital even.
finding some place where you can go do things you like is the first step in meeting people who share those same interests with you.
hope it helps!
2007-08-30 23:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by withay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 0 friends at my school, and I've been going there for a year now.
2007-08-30 23:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋