He's looking up sites for porn, suicide and revenge... what does it mean and what should I do about it? I told his mom and she's distraught and doesn't know what to do.
2007-08-30 15:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jason 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Get him help ASAP. I had a friend commit suicide this week, and eveyone said that he had been showing no signs of derpession or anything. Confront him about it and get him help before it is too late.
2007-08-30 15:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh with the porn anyone 13-34285987435843 I think looks at it but as for suicide and revenge talk to him about it then get a therapist if needed.
2007-08-31 00:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is a normal thing. The other sites are definitely a red flag. Taking away his computer is a little extreme, there are locks you can put on certain websites. Whatever you do don't upset him, find a way to bring it up that isn't condescending or doesn't sound like you were invading his privacy you want to get him to open up without pushing him because if you push him he could do something horrible. If he isn't comfortable talking to you or his mother try getting him to talk to a counselor or another adult he trusts.
2007-08-30 23:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET HIM TO A THERAPIST... STAT!
The porn thing is pretty normal, but suicide and revenge is the sort of stuff that the school shooters look up. Take away his computer or at least his internet acess.
Get off the computer and do this now! Hurry up and you can help him!
Good luck. :)
2007-08-30 22:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about talking to him. Maybe he is having problems at school or with his friends and feels the only place to find the answers is the internet.
As for the porn, its kind of expected that boys will be looking at that stuff.
Just talk to the kid in a non confrontational or judgemental manner. If he doesn't open up just tell him that you will always be there if he needs to talk.
Good Luck.
2007-08-30 22:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Littlestars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get him to a doctor QUICK
The porn is normal for that age the suicide and revenge that's not normal.Spend some time with him make him fell more appreciated and loved.
2007-08-31 05:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by RANDOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him with this information, you can leave out the porn though haha. tell him that you guys really care about him and just want to do whats best for him, get him to open up and let him know that you both love him and want to help him
2007-08-30 23:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a long serious talk, starting with a sincere assurance that you both love him with all of your hearts and are concerned and that he can share anything with you, or if he's uncomfortable with that, you'll get him an appointment with a professional he can talk to.
2007-08-31 11:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe have a sit down with him, one on one since mom apparently is too upset.
speak calmly to him and ask what's on his mind and what's up with the sites he's been surfing. porn not so bad. other sites bad
2007-08-30 22:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok will the porn thing i thinke is normal but the suicide thing is not you can take talk to he abot that and if that does not work you can take hem to your home doctor and have he help you to find not what to do ............ hope that helped you
2007-08-30 23:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by justin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋