For this question, imagine you are single (if you are not). You can choose your bride/groom based on physical appearances and a few hours of conversation, but nothing more. You can meet as many as you want, but you only spend a few hours with each.
2007-08-30 15:35:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-08-30 15:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't matter how many I could meet, I would need more than a few hours and physical appearance to decide. People can put on a good front to make themselves something they are not, and it is life experiences that we go through with someone that helps us decide if they are the one, not just a few hours of talking.
2007-08-30 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by magpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, is it a new reality show? I might try it. Do I get to ask real stuff? Can I request medical records? References? Do "physical appearances" include without clothes?
Where will you get all the guys? Is it a matchmaking service?
How much will it cost me?
Wait, I'm too immature to get married. Maybe I wouldn't try it.
I can't decide.
Maybe it would be a good thing for someone to arrange my marriage. Are you offering?
2007-08-30 15:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jolly Weeble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's hope all the parents know my parents then.
My questions to the prospective bridegroom would be "what's your education, what's your job, what's your income, do you want children, what motivates you, do you love your parents, would you take your parents in when they are old, are you abusive and how much fowl language do you use, do you consider a woman equal to you, what do you want to be 10 or more years from now, are you healthy, how often do you lie or make excuses, are you lazy, would you provide for your woman (and children) no matter what, do you have a savings account, what kind of car do you own, do you own a house, etc. etc., what do you expect from a woman," And then (because apparently this kind of marriage would be a traditional marriage in a country where that's what they do) I'd look at the man's eyes to see if he was kind, see if he would walk with me or in front of me, etc. and I'd ask what he would want in dowry from me (not from my parents), and would we live with your parents, would he ever allow divorce and in what case, and would his money be my money". Only then would I "think about" the proposition. Of course I'd have to have all the answers on paper and with his signature and have it notarized (so he couldn't change his mind).
2007-08-30 15:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might work....If i get along with them conversational wise and we have some of the same ideas, wishes, plans in careers and life then yes....because I dont really look for bf so it would def. be a lot easier to just get with someone ANYONE and agree to work together and start a family do the proper thing and just go with it.
2007-08-30 17:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i would never consent to that. before i make a big commitment like marriage, i need to know the guy really well. i would want to have known him for AT LEAST a year. a few hours doesn't really tell you anything about a person.
2007-08-30 15:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she looks like Elizabeth Taylor did when she was young, or Marilyn Monroe, or Jane Russel, well you get the picture. lol.
2007-08-30 15:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by mustanger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean, if that were my culture maybe...but i've been brought up to believe that marriage is sacred so i would make sure that i really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him before i married him, so not for me...
2007-08-30 15:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not...
as long as it wasn't arranged completely by someone else and I did get to see a few women
2007-08-30 15:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do that! My in-laws were arranged and surprisingly fell in love. I don't think I would be that lucky!
2007-08-30 15:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, besides which, who said I want to meet a male?
Rose p.
2007-08-30 15:40:56 · answer #11 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋